She said OK each time but now she says she felt
pressure to do it because I wanted it. She doesn't
want to go out anymore now.
What should I say to her?
2007-03-21 10:09:19 · 12 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you stop asking for sex.... not forever, she'll want it soon enough but seriously women hate pushy guys like that, cuz then it seems that it's all you guys want.
2007-03-21 10:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry buddy, but nothing you can say at this point will help. You've used someone for sex, and us girls in particular can feel guilty about it. Especially when we're not sure if it's what we want but we do it anyway. She's seen that it's not something she feels comfortable with doing, and you need to respect that. You should learn to respect women more too. Women are more than just something to "hit" when your horney. But that lesson will come with age and experience.
Just live and learn
2007-03-21 10:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, she said she felt pressured so you don't want to say anything else or she might interpret it as you trying to convince her to have sex with you. Just move on.
2007-03-21 10:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Vivita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buddiee .
what should you say to her ? ..
respect her decisionn ..
when gurls feel presssred to do smthn .
THEY AINT COMFORTABLE .
you gotta make her feel comfortable andd wanteddd .
not IN A SEXUAL MANNER . but thatt u want her not jst for sexx but for a goodd relationshipp .
if u jst in it fo sex .. thenn GO GET YO SELF A HOE
2007-03-21 10:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by mickeyy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you asked her? you should have let her be the one to ask you. tell her: "I'm sorry babe. I didn't mean to make you feel pressured. you should have told me. I still love you,"
unless you haven't said "I love you" yet, then don't say the last part.
hope that helps[=
2007-03-21 10:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ellers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry that you made her feel that way and back off the sex until she's ready.
2007-03-21 10:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rewind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, she apparently has made her decision and you should respect it.
2007-03-21 10:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
give her space and time
2007-03-21 10:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by evo25zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything.... go out and get a new girl
2007-03-21 10:14:49 · answer #9 · answered by PEDRO123 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
perve.
2007-03-21 10:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋