Hi. I'm having some trouble on how to ask this one girl out. She just got kicked out of a relationship a week ago and I gave her some time to get a little over it. I just don't know how to do it because I think to much about what she will say back. Does anyone have any ideas.
2007-03-21 10:06:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just DO IT!! The worse thing that can happen is she might say no. You will live through that. She might also say yes, and that could be the beginning of something wonderful. Just watch out for being the re-bound guy.
2007-03-21 10:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I think you should give her a little more time to heal if she got "kicked" out of a relationship. That sounds like it hurts. Then you should explore her readiness to date again...maybe have a friend ask her to go somewhere with a group of people, of course you being included so there is not too much pressure on either of you (bowling or skating as suggestions). Then wherever you guys go try to get some one on one time with her and ask general questions about how she is doing and how things have been for her lately. Chances are from these questions you can determine whether she is ready to date again...if she is then go for it and ask her out. Good luck!!!
2007-03-21 10:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by dr_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going thru the same thing as the girl you are talking about. My boyfriend just broke up with me on Sunday and I am still totally crushed. I wouldn't go out with anyone this soon. Give her a little MORE time, maybe another two weeks or somthing. Good luck!
2007-03-21 10:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see. Ask her to go places with you. Don't rush her into it so fast. Just keep asking her to go places and little by little she will feel like it's something special. And maybe you will get that kiss. Just don't hurt her again. Girls are sensative flowers which need to be taken care of.
2007-03-21 10:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by wbrs93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flat out came and say, "hey! Listen, I know you're recovering from a loser who didn't know he had the one sure thing...you, but I wanted to tell you that I am available..to listen, be your friend, or just hang-out." How can you NOT win with that one?? It says it all! That Hey, ur sorry she was stuck w/such a loser, but you're available to listen or more..she has options built in! So youre doing more than just asking her out on the ONE level...your opening up several levels which, might get more action! ALSO: IMPORTANT!!! STOP RUINING EVERYTHING YOU EVER THOUGHT -UP BY THINKING YOU'RE GOING TO KNOW WHT SHE'LL SAY!!!! YOU'RE RUINING your chances before they even get out to get played! Now, muster up some BOLD and GO FOR IT!
2007-03-21 10:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her phone number? if so call her and ask her if she would like to go get a soda bite to eat or maybe go have coffee or write her a letter be patient she will come around it will take some time but give her a call and see what happens maybe send her some flowers to say you are thinking of her and when she wants to go out and have fun she can call you just be patient
I hope my advice helped you out good luck!
2007-03-21 10:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be her friend first. If she just got kicked out off a relationship, she may not want to go out with anyone, yet. Girls can have guy FRIENDS. and vis versa.
2007-03-21 10:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy i say u should just go up to her n ask her out now she may say no cause she just got out of a relationship but that dose not meen she dont like u the way u like her mayb yall would look good together who knows good luck
2007-03-21 10:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE SHE JUST GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP TRY BEING HER FRIEND FRIST AN THEN ASK HER OUT TO LIKE THE MOVIES SO SHE DONT HAVE TO THINK ABOUT HIM AND YOU ARE GETTING SOME ALONE TIME AND IF YOU PLAY YOUR CARDS RIGHT THEN SHE WILL FORGET ABOUT HIM AND BECOME INTERESTED IN YOU BUT START OFF SLOW AND FRIENDS FIRST
2007-03-21 10:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by mocha27girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord!!! If you are feeling like this, she will be able to sense it, and nothing is more unattractive to a girl than a guy that is unsure of himself. Just be an azz and they will all come running!
2007-03-21 10:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋