this is for girls mainly
in a relationship do you like to be used by a guy?
like do you like ur partner to arrange everything, to dictate wat u do n wen u go out
i seem to love being in relationships like this. does anyone agree?
xx
2007-03-21 09:49:07 · 32 answers · asked by pixiexxpixiexpixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I seem to! I can't say I enjoy it, but I can't stay away from relationships like this. Dominant men are irresistible to me!
2007-03-21 09:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Halo_0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a couple of these when I was in my 20's. Some sort of warped father issue, is what I was told.lol.
But I thought it was more that I was the decision maker all the time, for me, my apartment, my daughter etc. So when a guy took charge and arranged dates, ordered for me, I was like "phew, what a load off".
Now in my 30's I appreciate a more 50/50 type of realtionship.
Best of Luck
2007-03-21 09:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you obviously like a bit of a cave man by the sounds of it.dont get me wrong i like my man 2 be a man but it can only go so far you have 2 have your independance as well.it might b alright 4 you 4 a while but that will wear off very quickly when he's dictating what u do and when u go out.do you get 2 tell him what 2 do as well? sounds all a bit possesive 4 me.
2007-03-21 09:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i woudn't call that being used! being used is when he's only with u for the sex! i would much rather be in a relaionship with the guy in control then with me doing everything! the guy should do most of the work! not saying we shouldn't do anything but the guy should be the engine! i think u have the right idea, but the wrong word! its not used- it's having a bf who will take control and not be indifferent!
2007-03-21 09:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No thank you, that is called being controlled not being "used" and eventually control leads to verbal/emotional abuse where he dictates who you can see, where you can go...even when it comes to going to the bathroom! Then it devlopes into physical abuse. Nope I do NOT love being in those types of relationships...
2007-03-21 09:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes to be used.
Male or female.
And it is morally wrong.
Don't be a doormat, please.
Never allow yourself to be used.
You are worthy of better than that, and were created for better than that.
You don't have to take that from anyone.
There are much better people than that out there.
People who will love you for who you are, and respect you.
Put your energy into finding such a person.
And never forget that you deserve the very best.
Just 'cos you are you.
Take care. x x.
2007-03-21 09:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by emeraldisle2222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no . i want things to go with both of us consulting each other . i doubt he'd like it if i order him around but at times he lets me arrange for things but then again we agreed about that and goes the other way too ! it's a matter of communicating and understanding what is going on
2007-03-21 09:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, what's up with that ?
man or woman, knowone likes being used, hence the word, something that is used is second hand and no way i am gonna be second place to or for anyone!
2007-03-21 11:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not girls mainly, nobody wants to be used, I am a boy and I dislike when I think I am being used, its human nature
2007-03-21 09:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Goldman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i like it to be that way too. :)
I never come up with good suggestions of what to do/where to go and im a rubbish decision maker so im glad its up to him. I enjoy spending time with my guy so its obviously working this way so far!
2007-03-21 09:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by only_lil_kez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋