I have a friend who have a brain tumor and has tonic-clonic seizures about 3 to 4 times daily. I love my friend like a sister and I know a bit what to do when she has one. The problem is that is she embarrass when she has one and come out of it. Is there anything I can do to help her to get over embarrassment or is it all I can is be there for to talk?
2007-03-21 09:30:35 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 3 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
First of all, you're a great person to support your friend with her seizures. Just for extra precaution, be sure to educate yourself on all of the things to look for, ways to help her, etc. when she has a seizure. This way, you know that she'll be safe, at least when she's with you. There are many websites that you can visit with great information on things to expect and ways that you can ensure her safety. In regards to her feelings, I think that as long as you explain to her that you love no matter what, are not embarrassed by her seizures, don't think of her any differently, and just want to help her, it may put her embarrassment at easy. Being yourself and not acting any differently will also help her to feel like her seizures are not interfering. However, some people with this condition experience mild forms of depression and need outside assistance to help them cope. You might consider talking to your friend about getting some help with that, if you feel she may need it. There is only so much that you can do as a friend. Loving her is #1. Being there for her whenever she wants or needs to talk is also very important. Good luck.
2007-03-22 11:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi kelly, sounds like you are a very nice person. my wife has had five brain operations related to an avm we found out about 12 years ago and now has a shunt in there. she still has seizures and does not let it bother her. ask your friend why it embarrasses him/her and see if you can talk it out of them. though it can be difficult i really feel you can help alot. if their seizures are so frequent they really should see another neurologist/specialist to see if they could at least try to cut down the frquency of the seizures. god bless and good luck to you both!
2007-03-29 06:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by mike_dooley49 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually if someone's embarrassed, they don't want you around. Try covering her up with a blanket if her bowels or bladder release what's inside. You can ask her what she wants. After all, it's her privacy you're dealing with now.
2007-03-21 09:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by flashpoint145 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just ignore the seizure. That may show your friend it is no big deal
2007-03-21 09:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll get over it with time. Just try not to make too big a deal about it.
2007-03-23 06:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by laineyette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋