I have a very very weak personality. Meaning im bad at everything im not funny im boring im not smart im bad at socialising, im emotionless. Im the type of person who wouldnt know how to answer back at an insult. I hate myself. Will i ever function successfully in the world and be happy? im 17
2007-03-21 09:30:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
We change so much, during our lives, that I can promise you, one day you are going to look back and laugh at this...someone somewhere, is going to love every boring uneventful part of you...in the meantime, I found that loving Jesus, and God,...makes me feel fulfilled..it isn't about me then, it is about what can I do, to make Them happy...God bless, you will be fine,...read, try to find what it is that makes you feel good about yourself, and polish it...you will be fine I just know it.
2007-03-21 09:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, there is no need for you to "act" at being another person. You are honestly fine the way you are, nobody but nobody is perfect and I can guarantee you that even the coolest boy in your school feels bad about himself sometimes. Everyone has a personality...I think the problem is that you just haven't found out who you are yet, but give yourself a break, some people go through their entire lives without finding that out, so at 17 you still have lots of time to find out. It sounds like you may have low self-esteem. Try reading some books on low self-esteem, you will find lots of them in the "self-help" or "popular psychology" sections of your local bookshop. There is a great book called "Help yourself for teens" by Dave Pelzer I would recommend that you give that a read or some other book which tackles the issue of low self-esteem. First step though, would be to stop the negative thinking about yourself, but these kind of books teach you how to think positively and you will find if you start to believe in yourself and be positive about yourself, good things will start to happen.
2007-03-21 11:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And being 17 is really what's wrong here - I wouldn't be 17 again for anything!! I know it sounds fake, cuz it is to start out with, but try "practicing" the kind of person you'd like to be. After all, the possibilities are limitless and you sound like the imaginative sort. Give it a try - if you don't like who your pretending to be today, act out something else tomorrow.
2007-03-21 09:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by tracymoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably be a late bloomer like I was. With time more people will rub off on you whether you choose to be around them or not. Eventually you will have to answer to a boss or co worker and they will some how magically help you form a personality. Trust me on this.
2007-03-21 12:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋