i'v made lots of new friends this year,one of them i ended up likeing he found out soo i stopped liking him.Now everyone is calling me a flirt, but i don't know how to flirt.(i don't talk to guys that much(i was shy)) he's still my friend but when i go to his locker just to say hi he calls this other kid over to "get rid of me" but when its just me and him he acts 1million times different (writing notes to him in class, caring about what book i read,etc) its weird. why is this happening????
2007-03-21 09:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by cutegirl67 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(he doesn't like me, and i never went out with him)
2007-03-21 12:42:01 · update #1
i liked him he didn't like me
2007-03-21 12:42:55 · update #2
High school jock syndrome. See, he wants to be cool, right? Right. So what he's doing(and by the way, he's being a real shvatz about it too) is trying to get YOU alone so he can be "prince charming" and have you falling all over him. Yet, when you and he are not ALONE, he has someone remove you so nobody can say he finds you attractive or that he's interested in you even! Oh wait, it gets better! See, on top of all this, when you guys are alone, he's putting effort into being Mr. Perfecto so you'll like him despite the fact that he already knows he's treating you like last weeks garbage in front of his friends. Be thankful he's NOT your boyfriend! You'd wind up really messed up from him BEFORE he dumped you for the next woman!
2007-03-21 09:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mm... Maybe he likes you but he doesn't want everyone to know it to avoid shameful situations like being bothered in front of you or to be pressed by the group to asking you out for a date.
mm... Maybe he didn't like the idea of your "subtle rejection" when you noticed he liked you and he's punishing you a little.
The first one, I'd say, is more probable. What is bothering you anyway? The fact he's your friend secretly? Or the fact people are calling you a flirt? If the latter, take it easy, because what goes up usually soon comes down as well.
2007-03-21 17:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tedel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you enough to show that he chooses you to be his girlfriend. That's why he acts differently around guys. If a guy acts differently around other people than when he does when it's just you and him, there's something not right.
2007-03-29 13:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he may like you, guys act like a girl when they're alone with a girl then have to act like a dick to be cool around their buddies. either way, he's got a huge head from knowing you liked him and he's embarassing you in public. get rid of the loser, no friend does that.
2007-03-29 00:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bit of an *** hole, wants to show off to his friends that hes got girls falling for him. tell him strait up you dont like him anymore and if he wants a friend then he can start initiating things. if he likes you then he will realize how much of a dick hes been and start treating you better.
2007-03-29 14:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably embarrassed in front of others, but wants to let u know he likes u in his own way.
2007-03-29 15:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's prolly only doing that because he still likes you or maybe he's an *** like some guys are. i think you should just tell him to stop da crap. tell him exactly wats on your mind.
2007-03-21 16:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by da wifey of ur dreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does like you. ok hes trying to play the not like you game. jsut try and talk to him. if you stop talking to him after he finds out he really knows you like him. its freaks people out. just keep talking to him like nothing happened.
2007-03-29 11:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Beaner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore this guy. He thinks he own the world. You deserve better than this...
2007-03-21 16:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋