With this woman. I did go to the woman's house but
we just looked at TV. She dosen't believe that was all we did thought and won't talk to me about it.
What should I say to her to get out of all of this. ?? I
am having lots of problems.
2007-03-21 09:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by Jon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have to say you should break up because if you want just be a dog then why be attached to only one female.
2007-03-21 09:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend doesn't trust anything you say right now. You betrayed her trust by making plans to have sex with another woman. Regardless if you actually had sex with the woman or not, the point is you planned to! And you went through with going to her house. She trusted you, and you went behind her back to have sex with someone else. Right now she's thinking that if you would do it once, you'd do it again or you might have done it before. Also she's probably thinking that you could've brought her home an STD from sleeping with a strange woman.
She has every right to be angry. There is no "getting out of all of this." If you really care about your girlfriend, you need to look at what you did from her point of view. Appologize to her honestly and sincerely. Also, accept that she probably won't want to accept your appology right away. Right now you need to work on regaining her trust. Or maybe you should try being alone if you want to be with different people.
2007-03-21 09:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Onimous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made plans with this woman to have sex you really dont respect your girlfriend at all to even keep her in the first place. I know I may sound like a ***** but hey what you did was wrong why should she forgive you. But if you didnt make plans to have sex than do anything or everything it takes for her to see that and get the point across to her. Good Luck and I hope that your innocent.
2007-03-21 09:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she ever talks to you again. Tell her the truth, tell her why you felt you had to go to another woman. Sex or no sex! Trust is a most important part in a relationship. I wish you luck, but the problem was created by you, you are the only one that can get you out of this
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2007-03-21 09:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed, now lie in it. You made plans to have sex with someone else, why should she trust you? Even if you didn't do anything with the woman, why should she believe you won't try again? If you are truly commited to trying to save the relationship then you will do whatever it takes to get her back. You just have to keep persisting and showing her that you love her, no matter how angry she is with you, you will keep trying to be there for her and SHOW her (not just tell her) that you are sorry and that you won't do it again. But somehow I doubt you will do that....
2007-03-21 09:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should scratch this relationship. Even though you didn't hook up, you planned to, and went over there. Clearly you aren't happy with your GF.
2007-03-21 09:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a gf, then you don't belong in another woman's house for any reason. You blew it!
2007-03-21 09:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up she informed me she might hitchhike down here. you realize sort of an journey. i'm no longer apprehensive with regard to the maggots, they'll pass with the aid of her gadget by utilising the time she gets here!
2016-10-02 12:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her something.. always works.. but you may have to buy something fairly significant for this one
2007-03-21 09:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her people are lying, and nothing happened,
2007-03-21 09:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋