i love my gf so much , shes a real honest beautiful person inside and outside , but for some reason i feel like i shouldnt be so attached bc i dont wanna get hurt , a lot of other guys tend to hit on her , the same happens to me too but idk im weird anyways its not like i feel that the other guys are better bc im truely not ugly , i just wanna be prepared for the worts , NOT FEEL HURT
2007-03-21 09:16:03 · 22 answers · asked by hotguybmx760 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hhhmmm... Well who does she choose..? You or them..? Is she a natural flirt or does she do it on purppose..? If you trust her you should not worry although you are human and we sometime's can be over protective...Which is kind of sexy.. It shows you care but there is a thin line between "The Care Bear" and the "BEAST"..... I am sure she feels the same...
Plus when a girl/women likes you and only you everyone other guy is scum..(trust me)
I found when you really LOVE someone you will bite your tounge and think before you react... whatever is bound to happen is going to happen don't give anyone ideas to do so
after all when you accuse and accuse it's bound to happen...
Women just as well as Men like confident mates... Remember every other is considered scum..No ones better then who she's with who she choose's..! Don't present yourself like those Jealous no confidence can't make decision's for yourself type little boys...your better then that in fact you got a good girl to go match your style.... If you don't want to get hurt make sure you don't hurt yourself plain and simply....If you end up getting hurt... Hey you got style ...
Her lose not yours.... Be your best and she has no reason not meaning do everything for her but show her that your responsible you care about your concequence... Show her you care for yourself and she will care for you... No one care's for anyone who doesn't care for themselves not even themselves........good luck
2007-03-21 09:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get sooo attached.
my sister had a relationship going for almost 1 1/2 yrs.
he swiped everything from under her and was left witha whole different self. Somethimnes you think the'll never hurt you, but the truth is, everyone is capable of breaking a heart.
Dont get jealous of her. Thats exactly what the other guy is trying to make you feel.
Good Luck :D
2007-03-21 09:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Pandabee0098 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is be more confident with yourself, know that if she were to leave, you still have yourself in the long run. Be your own best friend and be happy with who you are. Don't let anything that anyone else does affect you, because you are in control of your feelings and emotions, no one can take that from you.
If it doesn't work out, think about what your mistakes were and try to improve on that for the next girl you date, but don't dwell on the thought, take every relationship as a lesson.
2007-03-21 09:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to remember SHE's not doing the hitting, the other guys are. My hubby did this really cool thing the first night we went out. This guy started honing in on me, and my hubby really calmly came up and put his arm around my waist and started talking small talk with the guy. It was cool because it ran interference for me, and let the guy hitting on me know who I was with, without causing a scene.
He actually won me over quite a bit by doing that (hubby), because I'd had major issues with past boyfriends over how other guys reacted to me. I can't change how guys look at me (believe me, I've tried changing everything to get them to back off so my at the time boyfriends wouldn't get jealous), so it was nice that my now hubby handled it so well.
2007-03-21 09:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes being hurt is inevitable. Sometimes you cant ever be prepared for the worst because it is the worst. My advice would be just to enjoy your relationship while you still can and if you guys end up seeing other people then at least you can be happy knowing that you loved once instead of not at all.
2007-03-21 09:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes an honest person, then you can trust her not to cheat on you and you should be able to believe her when she says I love you. You should be flattered that other guys hit on her. As long as she isnt flirting back that is. If she is, thats just disrespectful to you. If shes not, be proud that youre her boyfriend. Its obvious that other guys find her pretty, but shes all yours. She chose you over everybody else so in her eyes you have it way over all those other guys. Enjoy your time with her and treat her right.
2007-03-21 09:21:54 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy comes from insecurity in a relationship. If you truly trust your girlfriend and are comfortable with her, there is no jealousy. My suggestion is that you sit and talk with her, telling her what you have asked us at Yahoo. If you can't trust her, then don't be with her. If you know she has never cheated on you, then you've got to work on yourself and believe that she really loves you and wants to be with you and no one else. You are the one in control of this situation and only you can change it. I hope it works out for the both of you.
2007-03-21 09:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by Fran O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww. well i know how it feels to be jealous. my bf is amazing but sometimes other girls try to get in my way. i mean others hit on me too but i dont care anymore because all i want is him. as for not geting hurt, when tou give your heart away always know theres a BIG possibility that it will be handed back to you in pices. GOOD LUCK! youll make it through! im sure of it.
2007-03-21 09:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Italiana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you just got to learn to feel more secure about yourself. Then you won't be jealous anymore and you won't have to ball up your feelings inside. Don't worry so much about getting hurt and that will help. I know you love her but loving someone is sharing your feelings.
2007-03-21 09:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are creating your own self fulfilling prophecy by doing that.
Why would you push her away with the expectation that you will eventually be hurt in some way?
It sounds to me like you are just insecure about commitment and are using that "I might get hurt argument" as an excuse.
2007-03-21 09:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jenli 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋