Relationship question for you men?

Question

ok, So I have been dating my bf for more than 5 yrs. the first year I foudn out he really likes porn. I asked him to please not do that cause oviously I do not look like any of those girls so it makes me feel self concious. He said ok. SO instead he started only looking at it when I was gone, like 10 mins after I left to go to work he was on there. Now he goes on myspace and emails and looks at little skanks. the only thing he says is that he is just kidding and that he doesn't mean it. But he sent this one girl an email saying how he wants to do her and how she is soo hot and asking her for pics. We have had many fights about this crap and each time he says that I am overreacting and that he didn't do anything wrong. I feel that this is sometime that a normal bf should do cause he knows it hurts me and still he continues to do it? So men, why do you think he is being this way?

Answer 1

Why does he do it? Pleasure and sexual release. It feels good to let stuff come out down there...most guys do it about three times a day. Note that is three times more a day then you are willing to have sex. And you drag real life problems into sex too....women can just take off their clothes and have fun, you keep worrying about the bills or what not.

It does not mean anything to him...he never has cheated with any of them....it's just fun to flirt and look.

And he IS with you....for five years no less. Think he might just possible like that way you look? Or you think he just keeps you around as a maid until he can find a good skank to be with(and after 5 years he should find one any day now).

Just because something 'hurts' you, is no reason for the other person to stop.....at least to a guy. Women use the 'hurt' too much to get their way. You would not like it the other way around.....if he was to say he is 'hurt' by you having a job and not staying home with the kids, for example. You'd laugh and say someiting like your free to do whatever you want. Why does he not get the same?