My best friend and i have been close for 3 years - it turns out we've secretly liked each other the whole time without even knowing it until now. We do care and have fallen for each other but we decided that we both weren't ready for a serious relationship. Yes, there were times where in between, we would hook up but THIS TIME, we had a serious talk and promised that we can't be "biased" about things and go back to being best friends. We're both happy that things are back to normal...but more him than me. I'm heartbroken because that guy i've been wanting/dreaming for was the one right next to me and i can't be with him. He seems more over it than me - he's just happy we're normal again...then it makes me wonder if he ever had a thing for me....i need to trust what he said because before he said that if we were to be together it would be a time where things weren't as stressful (degree, work, etc..) and he wants it to be serious and long lasting...
HELP ME PLEASE im aching...
2007-03-21 08:38:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PS: he's a shy boy type...he's never had a girlfriend and all those experiences of first kiss, etc...and i'm the first girl that ever liked him back...BUT he's not un-experienced with girls...he's courted them but never had a girlfriend...
2007-03-21 08:38:49 · update #1
Stay friends and let life run its course.
2007-03-21 08:54:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋