heres the story my best friend used to like this boy ALOT but now i fink shes jus got a bit of feelings for him. But heres the thing he kissed me, it just happened, and we kinda started to feel the physical attraction thing and kissed a few more times but then put this "relationship" to an end coz my best frend mite get hurt but im not sure if she will its not like he will come between us. but i feel bad coz i love her so much so should i tell her? but then i fink still like this boy but my feelings are everywhere so i dont kno so should i tell him? but i dont know if he like me and hes one of these boys that will play along coz he likes the attention so i dunno help pleeez!!
2007-03-21 08:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I doubt he will go steady with you..he is just looking for a bit of fun..forget him and find a guy and get someone for your friend..it is no fun when you both like the same boy.
2007-03-25 08:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have nothing more for this guy than physical attraction then I say stay away from him. On the other hand if your friend only liked this boy and there was nothing ever between them it's not like you are going with her ex boyfriend or anything. Tell your friend what happened before she hears it from someone else and find out how she feels about you getting with this guy. She is your best friend, be honest with her and only then should you pursue a possible relationship with this guy. But don't do it behind her back or this guy will come between you.
2007-03-21 15:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might be very awkward, but I would recommend you and your friend have a talk about this! It might save a great friendship if both of you get your feelings out in the open and not give the appearance of trying to sneak around!
2007-03-21 15:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are better off not doing anything with him, you and your friend need a pact to just stay friends with him and thats it, because friends will always be there for you while boyfriends will disappear. You cant let a guy come between you and your best friend.
2007-03-21 15:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by katie t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no question about it...Don't ever jeopardize friendship because of a guy...
There will be a million of others,but true friends are rare...
Forget about him and tell your friend that he kissed you......once...and you don't want anything with him.
Maybe it will be hard in the beginning but you'll get over it and later u will thank yourself for that move...
2007-03-21 15:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Nemanja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to be honest with your friend, if you love her as much as you say you do, it would hurt her more if she heard the story from anybody else. if she's your friend, you will be able to talk this one out, and remain friends. ask her what is her opinion, would she be upset if you dated this guy? does she have feelings for him? think about the guy too, does he worth it? You don't even know if he likes you? ask yourself this question: think about what is important to you, your friend or this guy? which one would you let go, if necessary? then you will see the situation clearly.
2007-03-21 15:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey baby gal,this is i decision u have to make yourself.u either lose the guy or u lose your friend,because u practically cant have both.so who of the two do u value most,the guy or ur friend.u have some thinking to do,so make sure u stay quite sober
2007-03-22 04:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Brendar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋