He invited me to a concert this weekend and one of my guy friends tagged along that he does not like. The three of us ended up going dancing later. I got drunk and cried for 2 hours. My boyfriend ignored me for 2 days. He finally said he was disappointed in me and that i danced in front of my friend. I didnt do that. Anyway...he continues to be very aloof and wont sleep with me. While online i saw a note on his dresser it says this:
fact
1. you said we wont have sex ever (after thinking i was gonna use condoms we bought together)
2. you got drunk and smoked pot when you discovered condoms in my luggage
3. the night you asked "how was your date?"
4. dancing with your friend
i really missed you when i called from mexico during christmas and valentines day
delusion
you dont trust me...insecurity
What should i do with this. Do i write him back? Do i pretend i didnt see it bc he might accuse me of snooping? Do i tell him to move out?
2007-03-21 08:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Phew...sounds like you need to have a conversation and clear the air. Toooo much going unsaid in this whole thing.
Me? I'd leave the note on the dresser another day or so (let him come home and see it untouched/unmoved so he thinks you didn't see it). If it stays out another day, he meant for you to find it.
If that happens, just bring it to him and talk. MAN, you need to talk. You DEFINITELY need to talk (no note-writing).
2007-03-21 08:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down with him, and talk about what you saw. Stay with him for a while and if things don't go right then you know what you have to do.
I think the letter means that he doesn't like the way you act or the things you do. so just sit down and talk to each other.
:)
2007-03-21 08:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn_kid94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him you read the note, but try not to drink so much and make him feel that he is special. Sounds like he feels ignored and unloved. Pay attention to him, do something romantic so you can have make-up sex. good luck.
2007-03-21 08:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's making reasons why he's either depressed or upset.
Talk to him about all this stuff, not the note, cause that'll be tricky to get around. But try hard not be "crazy" and wild. He's probably sick of it.
2007-03-21 08:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. COMMUNICATE. Don't wonder what he means, or what some mystery list on a piece of paper means, and we sure can't tell you because we don't know him.
Talk to him...then go from there.
2007-03-21 08:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is very simple, get rid of him. Theres alot of fish in the sea.
2007-03-21 08:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by DickeyDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u really hurt this guy and trust is an issue now. Do u remember wh. all u did?
2007-03-21 08:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by luminous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering if you are still drinking because none of that makes sense.
2007-03-21 08:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you should do really. This note he wrote was a question about what he should do.
2007-03-21 08:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and him need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk.
2007-03-21 08:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋