How many people out there ask to see their boyfriend/girlfriends current credit report once the relationship goes from just dating to something more serious? Is this a pretty reasonable and acceptable request now-a-days from couples?
2007-03-21 07:57:51 · 14 answers · asked by sunshinegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are contemplating marriage, contemplating living together, or contemplating making a major purchase together then yes it would be acceptable.
Otherwise, it's not really (general) your business.
2007-03-21 08:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand cause you are worried about the future and how his credit will affect you and the life you will have together, but I think if your bf is that type of person then go for it. I would not though if it was me.
2007-03-21 08:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they even have to know you're wanting this?
Just bust open their account and see, haha
If you are thinking of marriage, it's really just a business partnership.
You DO want to know if your partner won't embezzle your money, right?
2007-03-21 08:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, would you accept your b/f asking for your credit history? I don't think so.
My b/f knows nothing about my credit history, I know all of his, but because he tells me about it, not like I forced him too, and it is actually good to know about it, for future references.
2007-03-21 08:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only ask if I was planning on moving in together and helping eachother pay bills. other than that why would you need to see it.
2007-03-21 08:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would think that would be a very reasonable request, Smart even, although i bet one or the other would be mad,
I wish I had done that with my second wife, she had tons of bills and when you marry if it is a community property state, you end up with her debt
2007-03-21 08:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not acceptable. Its privacy until a person feel comfort to share with, fine its all about decision.
2007-03-21 08:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only if you are planning on getting married
2007-03-21 08:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are trying to get a loan together, no you shouldn't ask.
2007-03-21 08:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that it is acceptable as long as they dont have a problem with it. or if you do dont get caught
2007-03-21 08:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by barbs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋