Hi,
I would like a females perspective on this. I was out with a buddy of mine in a bar and we were standing next to a group of girls minding our own business when the girls suddenly brought up the subject of having a one night stand. We couldn't help but overhear the conversation when one of the girls said to her friends she wanted a one night stand with a guy she met but she couldn't go through with it because she had worn her shoes all day and her feet were really hot and sweaty and she felt really embarased about it especially since she knew her shoes would be coming off.
My questions is would something like that really cross your mind and prevent you from going back with a guy and having sex with him?
2007-03-21 07:55:15 · 19 answers · asked by r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like they were teasing. My feet were the last thing on my mind during any of my one-nighters. Then again, I was so drunk, there wasn't much on my mind.
2007-03-21 07:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course!. Anything that may cause you discomfort, or feeling embarrassed will stop in your tracks if your open to a one night stand. If a girl is self conscious about her appearance, she will turn down the thought. The key to that problem is that you have to feel not only attracted but comfortable with the other person, and at easy. And that usually does not happen with a total stranger. If anything she was really polite and considerate!!!
2007-03-21 08:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, she most likly had fantasized about the possibility of a one night stand, but didn't really have the guts to carry through with it, and found any excuse she could to get out of looking like a wimp compared to her possibly "more adventurous" friend. I have never had a one nighter, because I always seem to find excuses like that to get me out of it!
2007-03-21 08:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by fallingurrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - but then I figure if you are actually going to have that level of intimate contact with someone - even if its just for one night - you should be able to excuse yourself for a shower/wash and brush up. Hey you could even figure in a nice sexy shower a deux! Perfect!
2007-03-21 08:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was considering a one-night-stand, i don't think my sweaty feet would come into it. Id be more concerned about other things. LoL
2007-03-21 08:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by creamball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes some girls tend to make guys happy. Sometimes they need to be comfort around guys than embrass themselves. It always happened to me when i was stuck something and i pushed one night stand away.
2007-03-21 08:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, no...there are restrooms everywhere for a quick foot-washing (if I felt my feet were that offensive). Potentially smelly feet was a lame excuse and I doubt the real one.
2007-03-21 08:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are in insecure of the least of problems or mayb they knew u guys were listening and just wanted to make u sure come over
2007-03-21 08:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-10 13:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by Nolan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when having a night stand worrying about your shoes os the last thing.Let alone being drunk........
2007-03-21 08:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋