As I know there are still men who want to marry virgin girl , based on tradition.And there are men who want at least to marry a girl that slept with a very small number of men . Are there virgin girls who want to marry virgin man ?Are there women who slept with a very limited number of men that want to marry also a man that slept with a very limited number of women...1 or 2 or so?
I guess at least at the countriside the things go like this , don't they?
2007-03-21 07:55:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
When my husband and I married we were both virgins. We both preferred it that way. We saved ourselves for eachother.
2007-03-21 08:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by 1st time momma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer my husband to be a virgin, but if the man I want to marry isn't then that isn't that big of a deal as long as he hasn't slept with many women before I (no more than 2-3). It would be so much more special if the man was also a virgin and it says a lot about a man's character that he is waiting for the woman of his dreams rather than sleeping with whomever he can. This is just my opinion and may not be the norm. I think that most people don't care either way as long as they are not very religious.
2007-03-22 07:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the person. I personally want a guy who knows what he wants and is "good" in bed, but there's no reason why that guy can't be a virgin. I have no idea why people think # of sexual partners=how good someone is in bed!!!
I think we all know of guys who have had sex with hundreds of women...and are HORRIBLE and/or inconsiderate in bed.
Conversely, a virgin can still have a high sex drive, follow directions well, be sensual/sexual, creative, kinky, and co-ordinated. All making them a very good potential lover. Plus, they have no STD's. :) In fact, I think a sexy virgin who is waiting for his future wife is about as hot as it gets.
I'd rather have a guy who will learn what I want as opposed to a guy who has been "taught" by 20 other women.
I personally prefer guys with little to no experience.
That said, I have only dated one person with more than 2 sexual partners (I think he had 3). I thought he was great, and it didn't matter in the grand scheme of things. I would have been very happy with this number, since it's really how you feel about the person.
My fiance has been with one partner before me.
2007-03-21 12:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by reginachick22 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my fiance and i are both virgins, and we love it that way. i mean i woodnt like to marry some one who has been used...yuck. its like settling for less. if ur a virgin jus wait 4 da perfect man God has 4 u, he most likely will be a virgin too. I think its gonna be so much better on our wedding night since we've waited. its so much more special, and yes sex is sacred... God intended it to be for 1 man and 1 woman.
2007-03-21 08:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I aren't virgins. I don't think any one of us would want to wait until we married someone, and then find out that the person we married wasn't compatible in bed (no nasty surprises, such as your partner is an S&M junkie).
Just because we didn't wait, it doesn't mean that sex is any less special than someone that waited.
2007-03-21 09:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I'm glad that my husband wasn't a virgin when I married him, and I am glad that I wasn't a virgin either.
Neither of us has been around the block exactly.. lol, but we have had more than 1 or 2 other partners.
For me, it's just made me see how much more enjoyable sex is when you're married, in love, and committed.
2007-03-21 08:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gaddis 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I would have to say I value that my fiance and I were both experienced when we started seeing each other. We both had enough experience that we could really teach the other what we liked and didn't like. I wouldn't trade it. I'm not his first, but I'll be his last.
2007-03-21 09:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I really don't care how many women he had slept with. "The number" isn't something I even remotely take into consideration when choosing a potential partner.
2007-03-21 08:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why would anyone want to marry a virgin? Seriously, you need to sample the merchandise before committing. WOuld you buy a $30,000 car without test driving it? It does not make sense. Virginity isnt sacred its just sex, no big deal. Be safe, have fun, get married to someone with some experience and youll be happier.
2007-03-21 08:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by kmankman4321 4 · 1⤊ 11⤋