2007-03-21 07:50:15 · 35 answers · asked by aniemae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that happened with me, I'd definately want to see the chick again. Why ruin a good thing.
2007-03-21 08:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Cool 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Question should be "what would you think of yourself if you did it?" Try to hold on to your goodies a little while longer even if the temptation is there. If you start out with sex then logical thinking leaves the relationship,because it will be based off of the physical aspect of the relationship and not the mental. What might occur is that once the sex has died down or should I say the honeymoon phase of the relationship simmers down a bit then you will be stuck trying to figure out if this is someone you want to bring home to mama or even pursue a respectable relationship with because the two of you may have nothing in common (other than you both like sex). Gone are the days of courtship, where a man is a gentleman and women are women. Why even get married , if you don't have to work for anything anymore? If you received everything "for free" you would lose respect for it. You wouldn't appreciate it as much. Think. Hopefully condoms of some sort were used, and by the way, it doesn't matter if you are a male or a female, slow down, diseases are running rampant out here.
2007-03-21 08:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Iwannanewcar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
an immature guy will think your easy
a real man will see you as a woman that knows what she wants and admire it.
Immature individuals hold on to out dated ideas, they hate you for being easy but at the same time want to use you to relieve themselves.
A real man could care less if he gets it or if he doesn't get it...he will always see you as a lady because he knows what you do in the bedroom has nothing to do with your worth.
Its not what he thinks...its about what you think!! If you don't like the way you FEEL after sleeping with a guy on the first date (if your talking about yourself) then don't do that.
Who cares what men think...do what makes you happy!
Peace
2007-03-21 08:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by yunchi30 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a guy's perspective, two words...YOU'RE EASY. I feel sorry for you if this was a one night stand thing. To him, it just seems like you don't even know him that well and you slept with him on the first date...who knows if you sleeps around. Guys call this HO***!! You are an easy get and a easily happy person. Bad move...that's all i can say. Think smart next time.
2007-03-21 07:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by smile 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're just a 'jump off' to him for the most part.
It is really not about what he thinks though, it is what you think. If you like a guy alot and want to see it go further, maybe it is a good idea to find out more about him before you get in bed with him.
Just an idea,
2007-03-29 06:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by urban guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are special enough for him and that takes time to find out he will think nothing... I have been for a long time with girls that have given it to me the first time and find out that they were worth to spend time together... But next time pls make sure you don't sleep the first night... It just makes the relation spicy if you make him wait... :)
2007-03-29 05:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever sleep with a guy on the first date, because hes going think you're easy, then he will tell all friends about you , then his friends will be thinking you will sleep with them, and if you would happen to hook up then you're relationship will be based on sex, so if you a serious take it slow , but if you're out just to have fun well then you will have to use you're judgment
2007-03-29 01:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
More importantly what would you think of yourself if you slept with him on the first date?
If you want to have sex with him on the first date - go for it. Don't expect him to call you, but that shouldn't matter. Do what you want for yourself and if he reciporcates then it's a bonus.
2007-03-28 09:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by |sojourn| 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of relationships have a lot of natural chemistry and
if it happens to result in sex on the first date then it was
probably the right thing to do....He probably really liked you
from the start and thinks you are even more wonderful now..
2007-03-21 08:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your Character and Reputation follow you your whole life
thru.
By giving in on the first date, the signs of being easy are
what he will say, should things not work out between the two
of you.
He will boast and brag to his friends how easy it was to get
you to submit.
Think it thru first.
2007-03-29 01:26:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋