LETS SAY U HAVE RELATIONS WITH A WOMAN BUT SHE DOESNT GET THE SATISFACTION AFTERWARDS. WILL A MAN GET OFFENDED IF YOU TELL THEM A CERTAIN ANGLE OR TECHNIQUE THEY DO REALLY DOES NOTHING FOR YOU? DO GUYS END UP FEELING EMASCULATED OR START RESENTING THE WOMAN FOR TELLING THEM THIS?
2007-03-21 07:50:14 · 7 answers · asked by lookinfortruth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is not every time just every so often he chooses to just do one certain way and nothing else. Other than that Im pretty much satisfied 80% of the time but how do i tell him that a certain position does nothing for me?
2007-03-21 08:30:13 · update #1
next time he is on top and thinking hes running the show...throw him off of you and jump on him and tell him you are going to show him how to make you scream! be like a tiger...he'll never know it was because he wasnt doing it right before.
2007-03-21 07:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
CAPS LOCK OFF PLEASE! No need to yell, and lower case is easier to read if the shift key is an issue for you.
As for sex, it's quite fine to direct a guy during the act and let him know what you like and don't like. However don't critique him afterward if he doesn't ask specifically for you to tell him what he did that worked for ya or didn't.
Just as most women wouldn't want a guy to tell her after sex how she should've done this, this, and that because he really likes those things...tell her DURING the act so it'll be more pleasureable...not after it's over when it's too late to change anything.
2007-03-21 14:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad fact is that women are never completely honest about their partners performance unless they have just blown the top of our head off with an earth shattering orgasm.
2007-03-21 14:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty i dont know about other men but i dont mind being taught by a woman its the best it makes u a better lover
i wouldnt resent
i will be encourage because i have the technique down
i will be making u scream for more
2007-03-21 15:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy. some might take offense to it but then listen to what u have to say. others make say they don't care and just looking to get themselves off.
2007-03-21 15:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by wisegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to approach it not as what he's doing wrong but what he can do to do it right. DON'T make accusations or tell him that what he does is bad.
2007-03-21 14:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys would, others would just take it in stride like striking out with the bases loaded. As long as we got off, what you feel means very little.
2007-03-21 14:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋