we have been a couple since march 5th 2007.
when are anaversaries?what can i get her for her birthdays and christmses,valentines day?
stupid questions i know,but until recently really i've only ever dated guys.
2007-03-21 07:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fair point renee b,but i never did any of that mushy stuff with guys.lol
and to someone else...i am 17.
2007-03-21 08:08:54 · update #1
They aren't stupid questions at all :) I perfectly understand, and I wish guys asked that about me, it's really nice! Here's a list of things that are really good presents:
Anniversaries are, for you, March 5th, and/or when you get married (if :))
Birthdays: Anything small and cute, for example you can get her a watch, or a necklace, etc.
Christmas: My perfect christmas gift from a guy would be a really big soft and warm sweater to cuddle with (him not the sweater) and the color RED is a good color for a sweater.
Valentines day: Chocolates, like usual, and don't forget the card! Flowers flowers flowers as well. The MORE the BETTER. If you get her one rose, it won't be enough, if she's fun and outgoing, get her a bouquet of sunflowers :) even though it's Valentines, she'll love it! And of course, ask her out to some restaurant, or take a walk in the park...
Never get mad at your girl, that's important, if shes sad, stay with her!!! And try to comfort her! Don't ever show that you're mad, be funny and cute with her, hold her hand, and PDS is cute also :)
I really hope this helps, I wish guys did this for me, it would be really cute, and I wouldn't like to break up with them ever :)
Wish you the best,
Ekaterina
2007-03-21 08:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age and that makes a difference. The older you are, the expensive and meaningful gifts become. Also, it depends on where you want the relationship to go.
It's easier to say what's not appropriate. no, gag gifts, unless she has a humor. Nothing really, really personal in clothing or possibly nothing at all in the clothing line. Rings are a symbol of endearment, so unless you're willing to get serious, no rings. Probably no to wine or other alcoholic beverages.
Jewellery is always nice. Ear rings but you'll need to know if her ears are pierced or not. That's a safe gift but not get something too cheap that isn't surgical steel or gold or it'll turn her ear black or cause an infection.
Perfume, you can spend a lot of money here and get something that she won't like and never wear. Unless you know her preferences for that, don't buy it.
You might give her as a gift a night out on the town with dinner, entertainment and nice conversation.
2007-03-21 08:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by rann_georgia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps drop into conversation when you've been together for a month. I know its only a small time but she'll be impressed u remember such things. Perhaps go out together that night and do something a little special.
Then perhaps a 6 month anniversary. Something special. Dont go over the top tho, nothing too fancy else she'll expect bigger and better things next time.
As for gifts, jewelry is always a safe bet, girls love shiny stuff! Dont go for bath stuff coz its ordinary, plus she could it as an insult!
2007-03-21 09:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by only_lil_kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anniversaries? all depends on how often you want to celebrate them. probably at first - make sure you remember each month (april 5, may 5, june 5, etc). After a year though - i'd say it might be alright to worry about the years (or every 6 months if you want more).
gifts are something especially for her. make sure it's something she likes. flowers are nice for certain occasions, but if you want a real gift, find out what she likes and give something related to it, but make sure it comes from the heart.
just be yourself, and don't try to be someone you're not. be honest, but not too forthcoming. keep a part of yourself secret so she is still looking for more.
2007-03-21 07:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Searching 4 Answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
expensive gifts are nice and so how much u value us.
but more important are the cheaper gifts which come from the heart things that are unusual. the things she can look back on and remember have much more value than the expenisve gifts which anyone could buy. to think of gifts relate back to memories to prove to her you have loved and remember every little thing about her. e.g a scrap book of ur life together, this would be good for an aniversary to look back on how much u enjoyed the year that past. include drawings u made her, photos, past gifts maybe, letters/emails youve sent each other, tickets from cinema u went with her too, buisness cards from restaurants etc etc. use ur imagine and just make it special so its something she can treasure. xx good luck!
2007-03-21 08:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by bella x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
techincally, an anniversary occurs once a year, so your first would be March 5, 2008. and i don't think buying a girl gifts is really any different than buying a guy gifts, we just like slightly different things. anniversaries and valentine's day gifts should be at least a little personal, but christmas and birthdays, get what you think she wants. books, movies, music, clothes, bath items (Bath & Body Works is great for easy girl gifts), take her out to dinner or somewhere she likes to go. people are people, who they are and taking the time to find out is more important than gender.
2007-03-21 08:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Renee B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would know: I'm a girl! Ha!
Don't try to hard. If you make a mistake just laugh about yourself and she'll appreciate that. Maybe just ask her what she would like if you don't know. With regards to buying her thngs, mayve try something a little more unusual. It doesn't matter if it's not expensive so long as it's special.
2007-03-21 07:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by victory 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your anniversary will be March 5th...
Bdays / Xmas / Valentines - listen to her. Every girl is different, want different things etc.
Other than that I know sod all about the ladies
2007-03-21 09:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously.
2007-03-21 07:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋