I need your help. This guy I like has been talking, let's just say...trash about me. I thought he liked me. What should I do?
2007-03-21 07:30:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi it's Mike. If I were you I would talk to one his friends about it or go to the boy start talking to him about something.
2007-03-21 07:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by afdsaffadsfafafa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him why he's trashing you. It could be that he thinks it is a quick way to get your attention. You don't want to start trashing him, because that could only lead to trouble. So go talk to him, without any friends around.
2007-03-21 14:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tony S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have two options, either ignore him, or confront him. If you take either option it will be up to you to deal with consequence. Ignore the situation and it may worsen, or it may become some source of friction on your relationship. Confront him and, depending on his reaction or level of maturity, he may wish to end the relationship. However, don't allow him to be in charge or take offense, as this would give him leverage over you, besides he is at fault not you. A good relationship should be based in trust and in communication. If it is otherwise it won't last anyway.
2007-03-21 14:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to the next guy. You might have pissed him off some how maybe you flirted with another guy. Or he's just a prick just forget about it and get a better guy, if he keeps talking bad then slap his *** in the face.
Or maybe a girl who knows you like him was jealous and put some things in his head
2007-03-21 14:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE IS TALKING TRASH HE MOST LIKELY IS TRYING TO MAKE HIMSELF LOOK LIKE A BIG MAN,HE HAS NO SELF ESTEME AND THAT IS NOT SOMEONE YOU NEED TO BE WITH,GOOD LUCK FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH RESPECT,CAUSE NOONE WHO HAS RESPECT FOR YOU WILL TALK TRASH ABOUT YOU.
2007-03-21 14:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him when his pals are not around and he doesnt have to act cool!! Then say yo punk whats the deal with you talkin smack!!!
2007-03-21 14:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by deeshamon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either set the record straight, or just ignore him.
2007-03-21 14:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and move on with ur life....he probably didn't really like u....or maybe he is just jelous...don't listen to him...he just wants attention...
Good Luck!!
2007-03-21 14:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by J[o]a[N]n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if youre positive its been him whos telling these its best u confront him and ask wts the matter. dont tell him u like him tho..yet
2007-03-21 14:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you say that you like him and thought he liked you. well sweetie evidently he doesn't so get over the jerk. hold your head up high. higher than his.
2007-03-21 14:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by cindy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋