I live in bristol at uni, i have split up with my gf and still have 2 see her everyday and we all have a house arranged for next year and are going to live together. i dont really like things at uni at the moment and spend alot of time back home missing lectures, i am hoping next year that i will have a job and be part of some clubs so i can spend as little time in the house as possible and see the housemates as little as possible too but im a bit worried that it wont be that simple. im worried i will feel the same in september but i dont want to lose out on the house in case im fine with everything by then. what should i do? i only live 45 mins drive from uni but im not sure i want to commute either because part of being at uni is being independant.
oh, i also feel like the friends we had are kinda going to her side of things so i have no friends as such any more and need to start from scratch, like my 1st year again.
I know i have asked this a few times but i need the answers!!
2007-03-21 07:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the vest thing to do if you really dont wanna travel each day-is to drive there or get train or bus there or get a lift of a mate or fmaily on monday am-live in til friday p.m and go home for the weekend-this way you will spend less time at the house.
2007-03-21 07:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Chad Michael Murray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull your shoulders back have fun and live your fabulous uni life. Forget them losers!
I lived in a house where the other 3 hated me but i didn't give a toss. I threw parties, watched F1 races very loud at 4am and nurtured my now ever present f*** you attitude.
They had little choice but to put up with it
i also left them with a big phone bill to pay!
Uni is great, don't compromise it for no woman!
2007-03-21 08:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on uni is for haviing fun, you sound slightly depressed, get out, meet people, you need to put yourself in situations you may not like. You need to get over this girl, and move on, you can still be friends.
But can you do one thing for me,........?.... go back to your lectures, otherwise you WILL BE KICKED OFF. and you really, don't want that.
Look if things don't get better or you continue to feel low just e-mail me, i'll be happy to talk to you.
2007-03-21 08:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Bekka ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I TOLD YOU! dude i know! just dont think about it and do what you said an start from scratch.
2007-03-21 07:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋