well my gf broke up with me last march after we had been together for about 2 years. . . she started hanging out with this guy i knew from hs the next day and she knew i hated him and she proceeded to mess around with him like a week after we broke up which was really inconsiderate to me. The reason for the breakup was that she wanted to date around and she said she knew we would get back together sometime. Well it has been almost a year now and they have been together ever since(even though only officially for about 6-7 months) but anyways . . i tried to get her back for the first 2 months and it wasnt going anywhere so I went nc in june and i have been ever since. for the first 6 months she would try calling, texting,emailing . .anything to try to get me to talk to her. . even emailed me on our anniversary that said "today was 2 years" . . she would try to contact me on average every 1-3 weeks for 6 months. she even tried to get me to hang out with her . . continued below
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she even tried to gee me to come to her bday party when he was going to be there . .knowing that it would cause a fight . . .then there was a break from december till just a week ago when she sent me another email saying "just wondering if ur done hating me yet". .. i just dont get it . .. she seems happy from what I can tell . . she going on sb with her bf and everything . . why is she trying to contact me after 9 months of me not contacting her back? . . what does she want? What do u think is going on in her head?
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i can understand like the first couple months because maybe she wasnt sure about her new bf . . but it has been a year and she is still trying to contact me . . .wouldnt she get the hint when i havent responded in 9 months? If she was that happy then why would she still be doing this?
2007-03-21 07:27:21 · 5 answers · asked by osb2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She Loves all the drama...all the attention....and wants to keep you hanging on..........cake and eat it too!!
2007-03-21 07:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by connie b 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there must still be some sort of feelings there. but i agree that after a year she should of stoped. your not feeding into it which is great on your part because im sure it helped you to get over it. If your happy with the way things are then i would just leave it alone. i know it sucks when you get something from that person cus it brings back memories. on the other hand maybe she just wants to be friends because she misses that part of you in her life,. it might not hurt to talk to her just to say things are good and you dont hate her but ud rather it if she would not contact you anymore.
2007-03-21 14:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that you are just someone that she is in love with but doesn't want to admit it. Or maybe she really is just trying to start a fight... but the girl must have issues if you keep on ignoring her and she is STILL trying to talk to you!
2007-03-21 14:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_golfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a sadist and if you allow her to continue this behavior then I would have to label you as a masochist. How do you stop this??? Simple - ignore her, pretend she no longer exists, get on with your life - you will be just fine if you stop letting this crazy girl get away with this insane crap!
2007-03-21 14:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! i need a cigarette after reading all that
forget n move on cause the she's blowin smoke up somebody else's a55
2007-03-21 14:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋