i found a friend of mine and my husbend is on sex offender list and he never told us but i guss i had to find out the hard way of looking up sex offenders.he was there.i know he changed cause he got a wife and now a baby he love's to death.
2007-03-21 06:43:02 · 9 answers · asked by grumbybrat 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
yes it was a friend
2007-03-21 07:27:29 · update #1
you need to remember he could be on that list for otherreasons than assulting children. I know someone on the list because his ex acussed him of rape.
Just watch yourself and your children around him, don't let them be alone with him.
Because the other chance is that some offenders have families too.
2007-03-21 06:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda confused! You and your husband found a friends name on the list or you found your friend and your husbands name on the list. I'm assuming you and your husband found a friends name on the list. I had a similar thing happen to me. My uncle is a private investigator and he called me up one day and asked questions about our neighbor. I'm talking like 5 steps out my back door I was in his yard. Long story short, they were looking for this guy because he was an offender and didn't register. I like you was shocked because this guy was so nice. He didn't have any children but I just couldn't believe that he could have done anything. When all of it was over and he was caught, he came over and explained what had happened. He was 18 and had concentual sex with a minor. The minor did not press charges against him, her parents did. I can understand that. However, it was a little creepy to live next door to a sex offender. I think you will feel better if you asked him about it. Because if you are like me, he's going to be able to tell that something is bothering you.
2007-03-21 14:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by r_u_kidding 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait... your question is very confusing. Your friend's husband or your husband is on sex offender list? Or both? Very confusing...
Most sex offenders don't change. There is a guy that I worked with for 5 years and I saw his name on the registry. He has a wife and 2 kids my own kid's ages and I would never suspect. But I have to tell you, I look at him entirely different now.
I wonder if it is a situation where he was "framed" by someone, but they say don't be lulled into that kind of thinking. The fact is the men were accused, tried, found guilty and did some type of punishment for their crime. And THAT's what you should remember... it's a crime. I couldn't be friends with them knowing that.
p.s. the registry states what they were convicted of... in my friend's case, it was sex with a girl of 13.
2007-03-21 13:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's got a wife and baby, doesn't mean he has changed.
I would make sure that the information on the net was up to date and if I was REALLY concerned, I would ask what the offense was for clarification.
Don't jump to conclusions...They are WAY too quick to put people on that list. I agree that it's a great system but I've seen a couple of stories that a guy got caught with pix of a girl that didn't look like she was under 18 and that counts as an offense.
2007-03-21 13:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what he is on the list for. If its for something dealing with kids id keep mine away from him once a child molester ALWAYS. It dosent matter that he has a family and a kid murderers rapist robbers terrorists people like this have families too. Do more research about him or go ahead and ask him about it. And come to an intelligent honest idea. Sex offenders are scary and are on a list for a reason. Be careful and make sure you get as much info as you can.
2007-03-21 13:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by ByouTfull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although hes on the list for sex offenders there are different reasons people are on the list. sometimes they list if it was a child under a certain age, if it was a little boy or girl. he could be on their for any reason. like messing with a very small child, or talking to a girl he thought was older than what she said she was and her parents pressed charges. and yes some people do change and others don't. i would ask about it to find out what he is a offender for. but i would remain cautious.
2007-03-21 13:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is on the sex offender list. He had sex with someone he thought was of age and she wasn't. You never know what really happened. I also have a friend who is on there for having sex with a guy she met at a BAR. He was underage and she didn't think he was due to meeting him at a BAR. So you never know. Just watch your kids around him and if you are worried ask him. He will more than likely be open to explaining it to you. Good luck
2007-03-21 13:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b/c he's "changed" doesn't erase his past. Especially when it involves children and there are children around now.
2007-03-21 13:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be care ful but dont flip he might have changed
but always be care ful
2007-03-21 13:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by cwilsonhappylife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋