2007-03-21 06:28:06 · 19 answers · asked by DeAntre J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't know if you're ready, you're not. Tell him to back off and stop pressuring you. If he respects you he'll respect your wishes.
2007-03-21 06:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tell you that yes is right or wrong. It all depends on how you feel about sharing a bed with another man. You should be the judge of that decition and should be very careful when there are feelings involved.
Be catious and think if its the right time and if its apropiate for you and for your boyfriend, every couple is different and for some couples sex can get on the way of the relationship so it is up to you to analize of sex will be propiate at this point.
Jay
2007-03-21 06:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by jessiegirl_pr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may not be 100% ready and making love is something someone shouldn't do until they are FULLY ready. Do not let yourself get pushed into it, and if he trully loves you he will respect you enough to wait.
2007-03-21 06:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by pickledgrapenuts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of how old r u and if ur not ready than say no and if he is asking everyday and bugging u about it than get another man cuz there are guys who dont just want sex just do what u feel is right
2007-03-21 06:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by indi9891 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you arent ready chances are youre not, when your ready to have sex you will know and he should be man enough to respect that decision
2007-03-21 06:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by shorty_by_nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, "No" is the appropriate word. NEVER let a man push you into having sex with him. This should be your decision, not his.
2007-03-21 06:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not ready then don't do it. tell him you need time, and if he doesn't stay because u just need time to think about it then he was no good anyway, and all he wanted was se9x
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2007-03-21 06:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Skye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart....if you are not ready then you are simply not ready...only you will know and don't allow yourself to be
pressured...
2007-03-21 06:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There will always be doubt for your first time with anyone... unless you intend a 1night stand... but if you are scared then don't do it
2007-03-21 06:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sabre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ou think you not ready.. then your not ready! simple as that! so dont let him perswade you into doing this.. if he truly cares about you and respects you he'll understand
2007-03-21 06:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋