When you go through a rough patch in your relationship is it better to stay at home and talk it out, or get some space from each other? If you constantly have differences that spark arguments, is this proof of bad communication or does it just mean it's not meant to be? How long have you been with yours? Did you go through a rough patch and how did you solve it???
2007-03-21 06:26:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't mean that things aren't meant to be. Every relationship goes through so-so times when you may be unsure about trust, honesty, etc. I've gone through many of these with my guy and we talk it out. Communication is key. We can talk about anything and not feel offended or awkward. And do NOT ignore him in those rough patches. He may take that as proof that you want to be apart. People can get the wrong idea from that. Talk it out! <3
2007-03-21 06:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by The Prep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is one of those questions that is only truly answerable by you. You have to decide if it's too much, or if it's not enough, etc. Arguing constantly can be a sign of poor communication, or it can be a sign that you're both crazy for each other, don't know how to handle it, and do what comes next for most humans. Humans are made to conflict, even with themselves, but it falls to you to decide when or if you've had enough of that sort of relationship. Chances are, however, that if there is a problem and you don't address it promptly, it will most likely rise again in your next relationship.
All anyone can say with total assuredness is that we do the best we can, try to work through the confusion and find love. My fiancee and I have had fights that rattle plaster from the cieling, but I love her with all my heart, and that will never change. Good luck to you!
2007-03-21 13:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by EzminJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Space then talk. Most people need time to cool off after an argument. If you don't, you wind up saying things in anger that just make it worse.
Best bet. Say, I'm going out for an hour or two and then come back and talk. The key is to only stay away for a little bit of time. If you go days without calling someone, that will also just make things worse!
2007-03-21 13:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my Man have been togther for 2 years and when we argue we just take time for ourselves. I dont think a break is good. Just a couple of days being apart (not as much) and have time to think. We just always talk it out....and have some free time. Go out with some friends and talk it out with them.
2007-03-21 13:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by heyheyhey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its best if u keep ur mouth shut JUST so u wont argue about things... u gotta let it roll... shake it off.... I pick my battles... thats how we get along now.... married a LONG time..lol... after u cool off its best to talk about it reasonably... never shout or hit... if ur married.. the Bible says never let the sun go down on ur anger.. so if ur going to argue make it early in the day...LOL... but make up before u go to bed...always say im sorry too... even if its not ur fault.. say ur sorry for starting the argument....best wishes
2007-03-21 13:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had problems with my ex for four years and it seemed like he didn't want to change so even though i did'nt want it to end i had to get away.....if u feel u really want to work it out then stay.....but if there are too many arguments then that's not healthy and u need to get out of that situation
2007-03-21 13:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I KNOW WHAT THE HECK I AM TALKING ABOUT!!!!! I USE TO SELL COACHS. I THINK YOU SHOULD LEAVE YOUR LESBIAN LOVER.
C U Next Tuesday!
2007-03-21 14:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by auburnc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive you just need some space. maybe yall are just sick of each of each other
2007-03-21 23:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise and resolve it. If you don't, it will always be an issue.
2007-03-21 13:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋