should i stop dating him?

Question

I've been having a long dist relationship for 2 months, but i met him in a chatroom and we sent each other pics and we call each other everyday and send emails, i talked to his mom before and his family really likes me, but i told him that i love him, but i'm starting to feel like i don't, i keep thinking he is cheating, but then i don't because, he works and goes to school and then talks to me on the phone, but he has been falling asleep. The other problem is that my dad acts like he likes him one min then the next he's against it. But, andrew (my boyfriend) is coming to see me, but i'm starting to have sacond thoughts, i emailed Andrew saying how i feel i said these words(there's something that's been bugging me for a few days now and i've been trying to avoid it but i can't lie to you. It's that when we talk i sometimes feel like your seeing other people, i know your not, but it's probably because we are so far away, or it could be that i never had a boyfriend that was faithful ....

but um, i'm sorry if i made you upset by saying this,(just to let you know,i'm not saying you are cheating,i'm just telling you how i feel, Don't be afraid to tell me what you really think/feel about this, Again i'm sorry if i hurt you by saying this, i hope you beleive me when i say, I Love You)

do you think i should have done this?

Answer 1

I think you are taking a two month long distance relationship far too seriously. You have not even seen him and you told him that you love him?

I would say that you need to slow down, way down. Start by seeing him in person and see how you feel about him in person. Make sure you like him before you ever fall in love with him.

Should you have written that note to him? No. Neither of you are ready to discuss cheating when you have not even met in person.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

You thought it was right and you were being honest. If you tell him all of your feelings then you two can possibly and hopefully work it out and get all of the confusions straightened out. You did word it very well also.

Good luck!