Then she goes out and tells her friends and mine
that she is my girlfriend eventhough I never said that. How can I remind her that she is not my girlfriend and still have sex. I don't want to make her mad because she is very cute and a good lover.
2007-03-21 06:13:38 · 23 answers · asked by Troy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, who cares as long as she puts out? Just humor her. If you take it that seriously you deserve whatever happens to you when you "remind her." Which will be bad.
Keep your mouth shut and just enjoy.
2007-03-21 06:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to sit her down and tell her. She may not really understand. But at least you can try. She may be hurt, and say hurtful things. But if you want to stay friends with her, don't say anything hurtful back. It will only make matters worse. There is really no good way to let someone down. But if you can at least try...try being the operative word, then that is saying something. Don't go bad mouthing her to her friends or yours. It can hurt you both. I'm not saying that you are like that. But sometimes things happen. And things get said. Just try and be a grown up about it. Even if she can't see it. Let her say all of the mean things. Maybe she will come around, and the friendship will remain. Not with out a few mishap things going on. It may be weird at first. But you two will figure it out.
2007-03-21 06:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you both should have had that talk about being friends with benefits...Now that its passed that point... I think you need to just sit her down let her know you enjoyed having sex with her but right now in your life having a relationship isnt going to work out...But you still would really enjoy seeing her on a friend bases...Good Luck
2007-03-21 06:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look here pimpin.All you got to do is sit her down on the couch or where ever tell her with a straight face,that "we dont go together.Tell her you dont care if she has a dude,you want to be her BUDDY.Listen to that song OR you could just play that role an make her think you her boyfriend.Get in her brain.Thats more sex for you.Thats pimpn,pimpn
2007-03-21 06:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brandon H 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sorry about your luck but you tried to hard to make her like you so she would sleep with you and now your screwed~
Deal with it or move on cause if you tell her you don't like her like that you only want to basically use her for sex your going to get slapped, lol~
2007-03-21 10:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you don't know her well enough to be her boyfriend and that you feel like you need to get to know her better before you can give her more. Trust me, you will still be able to get the nappy.
2007-03-21 06:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's cute and a good lover, why not man up and date her?
2007-03-21 06:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when you have sex. feelings are formed and attachments are made. before you had sex with her, did you make it clear that sex was all it was about? no strings attached? cuz if not, dont expect her to do it again with you. what your looking for is a friends-with-benifits girl, not a girlfriend. you have to straighten it out before it gets any worse, even if it means no more sex with her.
2007-03-21 06:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ah, so your one of those users, if your asking then you haven't been honest to her. I have been with men like you and once I come to the truth. I drop them fast and ignore them as if I had never known them.
2007-03-21 06:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um listen...heres the thought!If you like her be her boyfriend!If you don't just stop having sex with her!Your supposed to listen to God and wait til your married anyways...so why don't you have a chat with God?(pray)Read around in the bible!God is your Lord,strength,And FATHER!He knows what you are doing.What if you were to get this women pregnant?Have you thought of those consequences?What if she has an STD and didn't know?What if she did know and lied to you?Then you could get it and it would be passed on and on and on!If you do plan on getting married but not to this girl your not being fair to your future wife!Just think about the ups and downs!I see about 1 up...a good time...and like 10 downs!If my advice doesn't help sorry but if it does please tell me at monkey_girl_1112@yahoo.com!thx,bye
2007-03-21 06:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋