I have been sneaking my boyfriend in my room and just yesturday he left then he wanted to come back over but I told him no and told him it's to risky so he didn't and now my mom is telling me that she has a bad feeling about something. That something is wrong at home but she doesn't know what it is.
2007-03-21 05:55:39 · 29 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you shouldn't be sneaking him in! There is obviously a reason she doesn't want your boy in your room. Like, I don't know, teenage pregnancy? STDs? Plain old trashiness?
Secondly, she probably knows and is giving you a chance to rectify your behavior.
One of the things I learned growing up was that my mom was never as clueless as I thought. They have a sixth-sense when it comes to kids. They know when something's up.
2007-03-21 06:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by notsoswan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a mother myself and I once did the same thing (sneak my boyfriend in the house), it is very tricky. Either your mother knows and she is waiting to see if you will admit it. Or she doesn't know and just senses that something is not right and she is trying to get clue as to what. It will eat at her if she does or doesn't know and she will confront you either way. I would advise you to either stop with the creeping or be careful in the things you do. You don't want to end up getting caught and betray your mother's trust.
2007-03-21 13:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by ccsunshine03 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mom's are not dumb, so be careful. we do have intuitive feelings just like everyone else we maybe a little more in touch with ours. you are feeling guilty and of course you don't want to get caught so stop sneaking the bf into her house. and hope she doesn't question you any further. remember most people do have neighbors that see things that you wouldn't think that they saw.
2007-03-21 13:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not know for sure but why risk it? Sneaking in a boyfriend calls for serious punishment! Boys usually don't respect girls who do things like that anyway so it might be best to stop that for both reasons.
2007-03-21 13:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some parents are clueless and some have a sixth sense about things. seems your mom has the sixth sense, but its not really clear. either that or she knows everything and is just waiting to see if you are honest with her. stop sneaking your bf into your room. your gonna have plenty of time for whatever it is your doing in there when you turn 18 and can move out.
2007-03-21 12:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by mcfly_lives 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm maybe. i'd stop doing it. maybe you should tell her...she will be mad for a while, but her being mad is a lot better than her not trusting you...trust me. I did the same thing...cept i was sneaking out to his car. and when they caught me they sent me to an all girls school cuz they didnt trust me. lol. but stop sneaking him into your house...tell your mom you like the alone time and still want to c him...but make sure she's ok with it
2007-03-21 14:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~In <3~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Your screwed.
My mom said something like that and next thing I know is I dont have a cell phone, camera, computer or a life. I got caught drinking though.. 2 totally different things.
2007-03-21 12:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she does know.....maybe this is her way of indirectly telling you to stop without having to confront you both. If it were me...the mom...I'd have confronted you first. Respect yourself and your mom and let her know that you have been spending time in your home with him...I'm hoping your at an age where you are making responsible decisions for yourself regarding your relationship. Your mom is an ally...share with her.
2007-03-21 13:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows something is up. It's only a matter of time before she figures it out. Once you start showing she's going to know for sure! Do you think she'll help you take care of the baby so you can go to school or are you going to go for the GED?
Good luck with that!
2007-03-21 13:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hate to sound preachy, but you shouldn't be doing this. She may or she may not know, but I would recommend that you stop bringing him over without her permission. I did something similar to this, and it was fun for awhile until I was found out. It's embarassing and you'll lose your mother's trust. I'm sure you like the alone time with your boyfriend, that's natural, but you're going to have to be patient.
2007-03-21 13:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Alice M. Ayres 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋