She's a supervisor, and she makes me draw her things all the time, and has kind of been touchy-feely when we've been out after work with people.
I'm bad at telling, but should I maybe pursue this? I'm a big klutz with women.
2007-03-21 05:49:42 · 23 answers · asked by Year of the Monkey 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it man.
2007-03-21 05:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by joe d 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be very careful - actually, she need to be even more careful. Does your company do any sort of harassment training? They are supposed to and this is a prime example of how your supervisor could lose her job. Let's say her touchy-feely ways around you are flattering to you right now but at some point become unwelcome. Two things could happen - either she can make your life miserable at work because you turned her away, or you could file a complaint against her and she could lose her job. Any way you shake it this is a lose-lose situation for both of you. Please don't pursue this and don't encourage her - it has a great possibility of ending badly for both of you.
2007-03-21 13:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her make all the moves. How about this... next time she gets all touchy-feely with you just gaze into her eyes, if she leans in for a kiss, then lean in also, if she doesn't then just laugh it off. But be careful, I wouldn't want you to loose your job over something as crazy as 'sexual harassment'. It has happen to some guys I know. The girl was flirting and everything and as soon as the guy responded......'sexual harassment!!!'
2007-03-21 12:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being friendly keep the relationship professional, If you were at a club i'd say go for it, but in a working environment, you could complicate things.
If you can hold out for another month and she is still flirting with you then just ask her out, I suppose there's more important things in life than work.
2007-03-21 13:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it is a good idea. I had a family member that had a relation ship with a co-worker and things went bad... She actually got him suspended and then fired from work... If you like your job i wouldnt do it. She can get u fired if things dont go her way. Plus it isnt very professional and you can get in trouble form the person who is abover her.
2007-03-21 12:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work relationships are rarely a good idea.
Especially since she is your boss. If things go poorly, she could make you life a living hell.
I guess it all depends on whether you are willing to look for another job if things don't work out the way you hope them to.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 12:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by spamovision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women just flirt. What you can do is gt a bunch of people to go to the same bar after work for happy hour. There you will have an opportunity to get to know her better. That's how I got to know my husband.
2007-03-21 12:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhnooooo...don't go there!!!! Your not even sure if your reading the situation right. I say that if your interested you should weigh all the possibilities and thennnnn mayyyyyybeeeee being a gentleman ask her out...ifffff...your truly attracted and she is too. I'm a firm believer in no hanky panky in the work place...someone always ends up losing their position in the end...or wishing the other would.
2007-03-21 12:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Corey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like this supervisor . stop going out! ive seen good supervisors get fired over this. mainly because of the gossip from the other associates you work with and talk to her about this . you are treading on thin water.
2007-03-21 12:54:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dori S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work life and personal life form a conflicting scenario that
turns out for the worst on most occassions...but if you are interested then only you will know....
2007-03-21 12:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest if you try it out with your boss and it dont work out you could be out of a job or she could make things awkward or you at work . ON the other hand if things do work out you could be looking at a really nice raise.
2007-03-21 12:54:07 · answer #11 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋