2007-03-21 05:49:32 · 41 answers · asked by looby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not me, its a very good friend of mine.
2007-03-21 05:54:10 · update #1
Im married very happily with a 10 month old baby, the reson I asked this question was because my friend is the guy and he get comments off people about it, I told him its silly and I would see what people thought on here.I hope I can prove him wrong.
2007-03-21 05:59:47 · update #2
Stefka,
I am "implying" jack squatt, I am trying to give you all a mental picture to get your responses, the truth is they both look exactly how old they are, had I asked the question without writing that, Im sure lots of people would have replied, "well if he looks older, or if she looks younger its ok.
please dont jump to conclusions about me, from a couple of sentences.
2007-03-21 09:05:17 · update #3
i'm 43 and my partner is almost 57.....i don't see anything wrong with that....we've been together for 11 years and still happy.....age is only a number....
2007-03-21 05:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No problem at all. They are both mature adults and have both been through the raging periods of young love and are more steady now.She will considered to have a toy boy and all of her contemporaries will be envious of her.He on the other hand is relating to somebody who talks and acts in a mature manner to him., which he may be more comfortable with than with women of his own age or younger. As regards any sexual relationship a 58 woman can be as sexy and energetic with lots of experience that the younger man could find very satisfying. the young man of course would have the stamina that a man of the same age as his date might not have. This way they are both getting the best of both worlds.
2007-03-21 06:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 08:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by kimmy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I am a 57 year old male, look late fourtys, dating a 24 year old fashion and swim suit model. We love each other very much, but we know that we can never have anything more than just a realtionship. She wants to have my baby to have something of me when I am gone. So, does that answer your question?
2007-03-21 06:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by hog rock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to go out with your Mother -what's wrong with that!
(Sorry, little Joke there).
Anyway, what's wrong with an age difference?
If he was 18 and she was 41 -perhaps it would be rather strange, (to some people) but they're both consenting adults so there is No problem at all.
2007-03-21 06:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that the older person in the relationship is usually broken hearted because the relationship does not always last forever. But if you are willing to live in the moment and enjoy each others time together go for it!!
2007-03-21 05:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by accept 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not for me to think (JUDGE) anything in this type of matter. Folks may find it a bit odd because it is outside the norm but then who decides what normal is for each person?
If your friend is happy, then be happy for him and quit trying to justify your negative opinion. You are implying it would be okay if they LOOKED closer in age which still would not change their ages so that tells me you are superficial. Looks fade - everyone's, unless you can afford a dozen face lifts like Cher.
2007-03-21 05:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they respect and love each other it is no one else's business. After you are of a legal age, the numbers aren't so important. It's happiness and compatability that is more important.
I'm 55 and would love a nice young man to fawn over me.
2007-03-21 06:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion doesn't really matter. Of course people may be give them looks, or make comments. But the same thing happens to anyone who does not fall within what people consider normal.
If they are in to one another, that is all that counts.
2007-03-21 05:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Alice M. Ayres 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok thats sort weird, but if they are happy and there isn't a lot of problems in the relationship there's nothing wrong.
2007-03-21 06:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong as long as they are happy.
If they go out together as a couple and feel quiet relaxed about it then they should ignore anyone that thinks it's not right.
Live and let live.
2007-03-21 06:24:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋