Well, my BF got a business line phone that he didn't want to give me the number 2, but I got it anyway because it seems suspicious to me. I called the number, private to c if it was the right # & he assumed it was me, & when he asked I told him the truth. However, he was made & said I violated him & his privacy, now he won't talk 2 me. He didn't call me anymore yesterday & he won't respond to my text messages. Was I wrong? I'm just tired of him keeping everything a secret from me, it just seems suspicious. I mean it's only a cell phone number, he's acting like I broke into his safe deposit box. What do I do to show him how sorry I am?
2007-03-21 05:46:40 · 3 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going through the EXACT same situation - you can't do a thing. You know something - stop apologizing - I did. I broke it down like this - I don't believe you are truthful with me about some things so don't expect any more than that from me. We still see each other but I guess I don't care as much - if he wants to hide things from me so be it - it works both ways. Do I expect this to be a life long commitment with this man - no way! We are friends though and we do enjoy doing things together but this wedge will always be there - I simply decided to accept the way things are and carry on.
2007-03-21 05:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I would tell you that it is a sucky feeling when he acts suspicious.I keep looking into my husband's cell phone and he keeps finding out and we argue. The only thing now is that I live with it and I am more romantic, and I keep telling him that I love him so much, so this way, if he is doing something wrong, he'll feel guilty. I don't know if it'll work, but I am trying it.
2007-03-21 05:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is his business, and age? Because if he is under 21, then I'd be suspicious. If he is over 30, and actually has a home business going on that makes money, then I'd be alright with it. But if he's not making any money, and you don't see him working and trying to get paid, then I'd say he's pulling one over on ya.
Best thing in life is your own intuition. Try trusting what you see & feel.
2007-03-21 05:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋