Ok so, I been with a girl for 11 months...long distance for 8..we recently broke up cause of arguements and her attitude seemed to grow ALOT. She was gonna get back with me after ignoring me for about a day or 2, untill someone told her a girl kissed me [To her I broke her trust but letting the girl kiss me] Then she went back to ignoring me again...and went absolutly crazy, cussed everyone, "YOU WANTED ANOTHER CHANCE!? **** YOU!" Now she will talk to me as long as its not about last week....I love her so much
The thing is..I got her a diamond promise ring for our upcoming expected anniversary and planned to give it to her the next time I see her...but since it was basically over ..I let her know I had it and wanted to know is she still wanted it...
Heres my question
How would this make you feel if your boyfriend and you was like this and then he broke the news about a diamond ring for your anniversary? and if you want, add comments on how to win her back
2007-03-21 05:46:34 · 8 answers · asked by andy_nc2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in a long distance relationship with a girl you supposedly LOVE, and you still kissed another girl?
Man, you are so lucky that I"M not your girl, because I probably would have castrated you by now! (At least I would really, REALLY feel like doing it!)
Stop conning your girlfriend, and decide just what it is that you want from your life, because you sound awfully confused.
2007-03-21 05:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that she moved for a job or school on this one. About the attitude thing I would say that she is probably stressed out with school/job. She is probably missing you too but sometimes women can be fickle. You sound like a great guy and I know you love her but she sounds kinda b***hy. Personally being a young woman cheating is a big thing for me and it may be for her too. Has she ever been treated on before? If so that may be where the hostility is coming from.
If a guy that I broke up with told me he was going to give me a diamond ring I think I would think that he was trying to buy me. If she suddenly wants to take you back you may want to be careful. She may just be doing it to the the ring/gifts she gets.
My advise to you is to take a week and think about this. Does she treat you well? Does she bring out the best in you? Does she make you feel special? Does she make you feel loved? If your answer to any of these questions is no then I would seriously consider not trying to win her back. You deserve to be with someone who will treat you well and not punish you for something that you couldn't really control. Think about it. Just don't settle.
2007-03-21 06:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly dont give it to her. I know that you love her but she has some serious issues. She cant flip on you like that when she was trippin' in teh first place. You said the girl kissed you right? Unless you was really gettin' on with this other chick and it was obivous that you started it she shouldnt get upset. At this point if she talks to you its just for the ring. All she is gonna do is break your heart. But if you really love her (and seems like you do) then hold off on giving her the ring ( and I dont mean a week i mean a month or two), just to see how she acts and so you know that she wont be using you. this will give you both time to work on last week..becuase your gonna have to talk about it whether she likes it or not. dont avoid that situation cause it will make things worse between you two. Good Luck
2007-03-21 05:56:48 · answer #3 · answered by carolina gyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that this would be a tough situation.. but she seems like a weirdo. If you want someone to be with you for the rest of your life. You wont want a person who is moody and is grumpy and acts immature.. You'll want someone who is loving and has a big heart and loves you as much as she can possibly. Don't let love make you blind to stuff that is VERY important in a relationship.
Love does make you blind.. and even though you may think you should look over them things because not everyone is perfect.. well let me tell you.. not everyone is mean and will act ugly towards you.
To be honest.. I don't think shes worth winning back. You can do so much better . Someone should treat you with the same respect you give her. Hope this helps.
2007-03-21 05:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, judging by way of how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends even as) she would say sure and simply use you to cheer up after which sell off you. I'd say that is slightly of a grey field. But if you happen to quite consider she's that gorgeous and you do not brain what occurs later then yep you are correct two perhaps three weeks and your golden. the opposite one will regularly get jealous, however if you happen to men do not speak she'll recover from you and transfer on and you can not ever have that danger once more... which could suck if she honestly is that beautiful :L You gotta come to a decision which woman you prefer extra. since if you happen to opt for one your gonna fail to notice the opposite. the dancing factor: I in my opinion consider that could be quite lovable xP however a few ladies could be like.. wtf?? i suppose it relies on the way you pull it off - like if you are a quite humorous no longer awkward man you are golden with that. But if you happen to come of tacky it is sport over. Hope i might support :P
2016-09-05 10:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by botras 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sounds like you guys have been through what lots of couples go through if she is ignoring you she might want you to try to win her back ya know like a prince in shining armor but if she doesnt want to talk about a fight i would say that is not a good sign. if she doesnt want to talk about your guyses problems than one day she will explode!!! she might not want to talk about it all the time obviously but just ask her what her feeling are on the fight i know i hate talking about my feeling to but we all have to sometime
i would give her the ring WOW A DIAMOND!!!!!
apologize (if you mean it ) for the spill about the ring. right her a poem if you are her knight in shining armor but if you arnt the poem type tell her how you feel about her i know mushy but,girls love it.
good luck with your love life
2007-03-21 06:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by country girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think you need someone like that whose going to be breaking your heart like that. To me it sounds like she's playing games. If my boyfriend would do that to me it would make me feel like ****, I mean that's not right.Be careful with your heart it's very fragile. But it wasn't right for you to kiss another girl but she should've talked to you about.
2007-03-21 06:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bud, get a new girl with a better attitude!!
2007-03-21 05:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Keli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋