why are boys so secretive?

Question

i love my boyfriend but bcause he is so secretive i am abt 2 dump him

Answer 1

Because we don't like people controlling us or telling us what to do, and because we don't like to discuss things over and over for ever until we give in and agree, and if we say what we're thinking that's exactly what happens.

Also we're taught growing up that everything that comes natural to males (sex, fighting or other competition, adventure etc.) is bad, and everything natural to females (Family, peace, safety etc.) is good so saying what we're thinking only brings us disapproval from others and causes friction. So, we just become conditioned to keep our thoughts to ourselves.

It's OK in our society for "girls to be girls", but not OK for boys to be boys. If a guy is strong enough to be his natural self he's labeled a "bad boy". Say, Johnny Depp or Charlie Sheen for example.

Enjoy your day

Answer 2

Well what you need to do is open him up... i guess it sumin thats in his past that he worrys bout you finding out so dont wana say to much to you but the fact of the matter is it'll b nufin.. ask him y hes abit hidden... dont get rid of him though uve gota give him a chance but i dont no how long uve been goin out lets say 5months in which case if u havent found out by now there might b a problem

If your in you first month then give him a break cud b nerves im sure u can open him up all boys are there to b broken lol i have been..
Goodluck go for the one ur closest to :)

Answer 3

i didnt think boys were that secertive,girls are much more secertive,but maybe hes not being honest with you or hes hiding something.maybe its time to move on..bfs/gfs shouldnt hide things from each other..

Answer 4

I would tell you, but it is a secret.