i said to the boy i love that i hated him, wanted him out of my life, and thought he was an '@rsehole and manwh0re.' i was angry at him being with other girls.
now he wont speak to me.
i phoned him the other night to apologise and he told me it was too late for sorrys.
i dont know how to apologise successfully or make it up to him.
can anyone help me?? what should i say?? or do??
2007-03-21 05:33:41 · 13 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you know babes you obviously meant it when you said it and you said it for a reason....................so you're probably better off x
2007-03-21 05:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother trying again because if he did accept your apology then you will have totally lost any respect he may have had for you, from a male perspective, I would say that self respect and pride are more attractive than begging or being a doormat. Sorry but let him suck eggs while you move on. In the long term you will be happier....Promise!
2007-03-21 05:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by anthony m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by villalobas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may never be able to regain that relation ship, idiot! he'll never have proper respect for you, throwing a pady never does any good.
the best thing to do is to go round his house, hide in his bedroom wearing nothing but a trench coat and sexy underwear! he will soon forget about the insult, just make sure he id gonna the next one in the room
good luck;)
2007-03-21 05:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i was reading an article earlier this morning and it was talking about psyco girlfriends,, not saying anything towards you, but once that line is crossed with guys, most see girls as psyco an they run,, so try not to keep calling him he will start to see you as being psyco,,, trust me ive been in this exact situation and the more i contacted him, the more he got angry with me, he wouldnt answer my phone calls or text messages, it was making me feel very angry..... its the guys that make women psyco, for lack of communication skills....... good luck
2007-03-21 05:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already said and did. I'd say the ball is in his court. Say your sorry's without any expectation and hope for the best. Good luck.
2007-03-21 05:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done as much as you can do.
You could, i guess, text one last time with a genuine and heartfelt apology and see what happens after that.
If you don't get a response, you're gonna have to walk away, sorry. XXX.
2007-03-21 06:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologising is not enough for boys they want to be shown that we are no lying to them and that we do want to be with them really. it is only naturally for you to be a bit jealous about him being with out girls and he should notice that you didn't mean what you said. Try getting a friend to explain it to him if he won't listen to you and if he is not realising that you didn't mean it he is not worth the time.
Hope i helped.
2007-03-21 05:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is what you said he is why would you try to get back with him? Just let it go, you said what you needed to say. I'm sure he is not crying in a cornor somewhere, but off with his new girl.
2007-03-21 05:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wouldn't accept then maybe he is a real @sshole.
I would just give myself and him time to think things over. Maybe it could help the both of you.
2007-03-21 05:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sh*it you are talking about my best friend arent you...... I am so sorry I didnt tell you. but my loyalty is to my friend.....
I didnt agree with what he is doing but thought that it is his bed and he has to lay in it....and i knew that if i told you it would break your heart.... i am so glad that you have told him this....
Hope to see you around .... and I think it was for the best you did the right thing.... You cant trust a cheater.....
Hx
2007-03-21 05:50:06 · answer #11 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋