why is it that i still have to look at other women, and im even tempted to flirt with other women at times?..... is this normal?
im black
2007-03-21 05:30:17 · 9 answers · asked by Terry and Deaner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good question good question...
my guy and i have been together almost two years..and we spoke about this like two weeks ago..I would say and if you ask him this as well we have a great relationship..we love and care about each other..and we are very open with each other..but he told me that its hard to be faithful..but he loves me so he is trying..arghhh i wanted to die when he said this..i felt like maybe its something i am not doing right..maybe he is not satisfy in bed..maybe i am not sluty enough (because i know what type of women he likes..the trashy ones)..maybe he doesnt find me attractive..but all in all what i relaize is that i am not the one that have the problem he does..and to you and him that is where maturity comes in..and growing up and realizing not everything is about pu ssy..whatever you want i am pretty sure that you can get it from your girl...(because i know that i will do whatever it takes to pleaase his behind in bed)...and also the grass is not always greener on the other side..so if what you have is good then make it last forever...
good luck...yes theres alot of beautiful women out there but when you really get to know someone..thats really not who you want to be with..its your girl..she is the one
2007-03-21 05:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, being black has nothing to do with it. YES its normal. Every PERSON, whether they are male or female, white, black, purple, green (ok so theres no purple or green people out there, but there are possiblities!) look at the opposite sex (or the same sex if youre gay) while with another person. As long as you don't act on anything, you will be fine. I guarantee that your girl is looking at other guys too. Don't be worried, shes human, just like you are. My fiance and I always say to each other, "its ok to window shop, but not ok to buy"
As for flirting, its ok and normal too, but if shes a jealous type, don't do it around her.
2007-03-21 12:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what race you are, you're human. You don't stop being human when you enter a relationship, as a matter of a fact you are more tempted and you see more eye candy when you're in a relationship but it is these temptations that you have to overcome. That's part of being in a relationship
2007-03-21 12:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you're black or white.
Yeah, it's normal.
I've been in a happy, commited relationship for two years and from time to time, I still will think, "DAMN that's a good-looking guy," and be tempted to flirt.
It's only a problem if you act on those urges.
2007-03-21 12:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's normal. You're not dead. Looking, even flirting is natural and acceptable. It's the touching that is off limits.
2007-03-21 12:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your colour has nothing to do with the fact that you still have eyes for the ladies. There is nothing wrong with watching women just as long as you don't decide to cheat on your girlfriend.
2007-03-21 12:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are human. As long as you dont disrespect your girlfriend by gawking and actually flirting, you'll be fine. Some people flirt without even knowing it.
2007-03-21 12:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal you just are a flirty kind of guy and its okay to flirt as long as is doesnt get seriuos
2007-03-21 12:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by leanndra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its in a man natural behavior.
2007-03-21 12:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by ElizabethKay™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋