2007-03-21 05:24:57 · 4 answers · asked by wikedbutterfly69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell them that you only want to help and promise not to laugh or judge them and that when they're ready, you're there.
2007-03-21 05:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a person is that guarded they it is usually due to they may have been abused as children or had one or several bad relationships and/ or they are painfully shy, and they feel its better to be alone than to be with someone than to experience that kind of pain again, the best thing that you can do is be a friend and encourage them as much as you can to socialize, and become part of the world again,just be a friend and tell them that you are nearby, if they need a hand or want to get away for a day
2007-03-21 13:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that will take a while cuase dat person has been through a tough time and da best way is bascilly be a close friend till theyre ready to open up in due time it will happen
2007-03-21 12:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I had the same problem with my best friend, well what I did I brought up subjects and encouraged her to relate. but it takes time
2007-03-21 12:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋