I have begun attending church groups in the last month. I am 28 yo
On the first night I met a 25 yo lady who seemed to want to talk to me. We were having a good conversation but since it was getting late I cut it off.
When I saw her next she asked for my email and phone number so she could send me more info about the group, which she did via email - why did she need my phone number?
there was an activity day last weekend where I saw her again. She had her nice shoes on. I didn't talk to her much as I wanted to meet the other people. On my way leaving the church I saw her waiting around with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I didn't think much about it at that time so I politely suggested a lift home if she was stuck, said goodbye and left.
She has crossed my mind since so should I email her or wait until another gathering? I don't know what is appropriate behaviour in these spiritual situations?
2007-03-21 05:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Email her....
2007-03-21 06:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The whole email interest thing is kind of weird and women are a little skechy about things like that. I would suggest that you bypass the newer means of communication and the next time there is a meeting talk to her directly and invite her to go for coffee.
I do have to point out that you missed a great opportunity by passing on the coffee invitation. This was an opportunity for her to get to know you a little bit better with not so much one on one pressure and you should have taken it.
2007-03-21 05:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might wait until the next gathering.
It's nice to do it in person, and if there's nothing going on for either one of you afterwards, you can go get some coffee or take a walk in a park or whatever, so long as it doesn't hurt your spiritual walk.
2007-03-21 05:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know much of this church groups. i suggest you do send her and e-mail concerning the the group. like asking when is the next gathering, and stuff like that it will eventually lead to other conversations. if she is really involved in the group try to do the same thing so that she can see that it interest you as much as it interests her. she then will want to get to know you better.
2007-03-21 05:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by DI@n@ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a Christian? If so than yah, if not than no, because this could cause her to fall spiritually. You don't want to do that let her make the move. She may just be trying to make you feel welcome in the church.
2007-03-21 05:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see she has done so much effort to talk to u... she did the first step... now it's ur turn to give her attention... pick up the phone dial her number and talk to her... gd luck...
2007-03-21 05:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a nice lady u should e-mail her back and NEXT TIME THINK ABOUT GIVING HER A LIFT HOME!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 05:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by gameboykendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should e-mail her. If you have been thinking about her alot call her or e-mail her.
2007-03-21 05:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give away
2007-03-21 05:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by ckoottunkal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mailing her will suffice.
2007-03-21 05:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel like :) do you want to go out with her?? cause she seems to like you :)
2007-03-21 05:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋