They say If it was not meant to happen It would of not happen in the first place the sexual stuff that I am talking about.why do some peole look at this way and later on feel bad that some thing sexual happened between them two people. like they regrated sleeping with the person they slep with?
2007-03-21 05:08:19 · 19 answers · asked by Carebear22 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, we as humans do not run on automatic pilot. We are ruled by our emotions. Most of us will do things that we regret, for the simple reason that most of us will be compulsive, at various times in our lives, and in different situations. People, in a perfect world, would think things through thoroughly, evaluate the consequences, and then make an intelligent, informative decision. Life, however does not work that way. All a person can do, is try to be decent, have pride in themselves, and learn through our mistakes. For every action, there is a reaction, and we must be responsible for ownership, whether through our emotional compulsion, or active conscious choice.
2007-03-29 02:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some people make bad choices like sleeping with a certain person, people say it was meant to happen just because everything in your life happens for a reason.. it all brings you to the end of life.. and they way it happens is how it is suppose to happen.. life is full of regrets, bad choices, let downs.. that is just the way it is.
2007-03-29 04:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by littlemama882003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a million. i'm getting to be certain hardly-seen acquaintances the following day. 2. My society and ecosystem instructor became away for the entire week. 3. it became a pretty day right this moment. the sunlight became golden-like and it only made me experience so radiant! (4. i'm finally shifting on from some thing i've got long previous by for directly 8 months. and that family participants participants are nicely after the typhoon that surpassed by ability of their city. )
2016-10-01 06:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of learning experiences.
Yes, at some points I regret dating and later sleeping with most of my exboyfriends. Nothing bad happened because of it, just the emotional attachment to a bad relationship.
But, if it weren't for those, I probably wouldn't have the foggiest on what's actually good for me, or really, what's bad for me. It helps me get ready for the good times and the bad times with someone else.
2007-03-21 05:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that is some peoples easy way out of trying to say they made a mistake. I am not sure if it happens it was meant to happen. That just sounds like a sorry excuse for someone doing something stupid and either dont want to get in trouble or feel real $&!tty afterwards. If something happens it's either because you let it happen or it was forced on you. Plain and simple.
2007-03-21 05:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by qnbsdau 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Don't regret anything. Because at that moment, it's exactly what you wanted!" Otherwise, you wouldn't have gotten yourself in that kind of situation. You can't even blame alcohol for it. Even if you were so horny, you couldn't wait any longer for the person you really wanted to be with. Life sucks. And so do some people. But you just have to learn how to take what life gives you, and move on.
2007-03-21 05:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I am a strong believer that there's a reason for everything whether we understand it or not...I think it really has something to do with us growing from our experiences and learning by them...Even if we feel that it was wrong, we do need to deal with the issues therefore we grow and learn, get stronger and wiser...And the rest is history..
2007-03-29 00:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because its just like a normal relationship in the begining you are so happy that you are going out with this one person and then in the end you hate them. Like sleeping with eachother one may have got a little to physicall and the other on edidnt like it. Or they just thought about it and said i mad a mistake and said y did i ever like this person.
2007-03-29 04:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, people have needs and when the mood is perfect, sex can and often does happen, then later maybe think about how they let it happen and blame themselves,. then the guilt feelings come in to play..but at the time, the passion was fantastic.. . things DO happen , wheteher they were MEANT to or not..i dont have any regrets at all.
2007-03-29 05:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's why people shouldn't have sex before they are married. Find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with, that you are committed to for a lifetime. Once you are married, you wont feel guilty sleeping with your husband. But make sure you have found someone you love and will love for always.
God bless!
2007-03-21 05:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by TLB 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋