me and my boyfriend have been livin together for a year.hes want to start a life together but im only 19 and hes 24.latley ive been wanting to be with my friends and party and even date other guys.but i have a very good life with my current boyfriend.i could go places and be taken care of for the rest of my life.should i leave him and give up a really good lifestyle.or go back to being a party animal.
2007-03-21 05:05:39 · 11 answers · asked by eburchett87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
exaust all your options!
2007-03-21 06:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by i am 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend like to party? Maybe he can take you out to some places...
I really can't tell you to stay or to go, that's your choice, but here is my advice.
Plan a night out, just you and your girlfriends maybe once every other weekend, or even one day every week. You can still have fun with friends and be in a relationship.
It's always hard to leave a guy that is good to you because you are not sure... trust me, I know. Sometimes it's a great move, other times women regret it for a long time. It's up to you if you are willing to chance it.
Remember though, you are very young, will you regret later on not being able to be a young adult??
Maybe you talk to him about taking a break or some time apart to see how you really feel.
Sorry I can't help much more, best of luck.
2007-03-21 05:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to give up a good lifestyle? I'm 19 and my bf's about to be 24, I would love to move in with him, he's a great guy!
You can be with your friends, just go out, if you want party with him, make large groups, don't leave him hanging!
Be a party animal, just remember your finances, and stay with the great guy!!!
2007-03-21 05:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by micolperu317 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay. Grass always looks greener on the other side. I'm 19 as well my boyfriend is 23 we don't live together but I couldn't image another man touching me or hugging me the way that he does. So stay and tell him about your urges,maybe yall can go out together.
2007-03-21 05:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kiana T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow--if you're having the urge to go out with friends and not wanting to be with your man maybe you are getting bored of the tedious day to day? If that's how you feel it honestly sounds like you're not ready for that full-time committment to your man.
If I were you I'd talk to him about it. He'll be hurt and very mad probably and you risk even losing him for good. But if you feel that you would rather be with your friends than him I'd say you need to talk to him.
2007-03-21 05:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you should stay but maybe go out with your friends to clubs or something... doesnt mean sleep with other guys just go out with the girls and you can flirt and have guys stare at you... but just cuz he wants to settle down dont mean you cant still party. make a night or a few nights out with the girls and party hard then you can come home to your man
2007-03-21 05:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you want to stay with your current boyfriend because he gives you money and a good lifestyle. Eventually, that will not be enough to make you happy. If you want to be with other men you simply don't want to be with him, so you have to make this decision on your own.
2007-03-21 05:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what you want, what will make you happy... and when u do make a decision, stick to it and don't think back (u know, what if i...) but if u ask me, i'm 21, i'd go for the good lifestyle... and i don't like to party....
2007-03-21 05:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start looking to settle down. If this guy is all that you say he is, give it an honest try. If you don't i'm sure you'll regret it later on.
2007-03-21 05:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i always say follow your heart if your heart is no longer with him then do what must but take da time to really think about it u wont be young forever
2007-03-21 05:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋