i like this guy but he is a big time player and stuff. i really like him but i dont want to get hurt. what should i do? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 05:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by jesus_1988_freak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know that he is a player and you are the type of person that gets their feelings hurt if their partner is not "faithful" then you shouldn't even be asking this question. You should just ignore him or tell him that you aren't interested in him. If he is a player then of course he will tell you that he wouldn't do those things to you and that you are special. As much as you may want to believe that it's a lie. You sweet so you don't want to put yourself in that situation.
2007-03-21 05:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you can love anybody else, you have to first love yourself. And if you love yourself you won't allow anybody to hurt you. So if you go into this relationship knowing the circumstances, it will only be your fault when you get hurt. And just for a little deeper knowledge men that are "playas" also have other mentality issues: selfishness, lack of responsibilty, the lack of caring for other people's feelings, the lack of being able to become committed... is this the type of person you want to give your time to?
2007-03-21 12:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy that will hurt your heart or a "player" should be a big turn off
2007-03-21 12:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by sexsired 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a big time player, you are most likely being played or will be played, is it really worth it? If you stick around, you'll get hurt.
2007-03-21 12:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you what will happen: He will tell you he is into you and win you over. As soon as the novelty wears off he'll continue "playing", and you'll be frustrated and hurt.
Sweetheart, if he is a player, trust me, he will not change for you. Time to ditch the fella (except you just wanna go for a ride).
2007-03-21 12:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know that he is a player, don't set yourself up to get hurt. Move on and find someone that will care for you for who you are. If you do decide to make a move, prepare yourself to be hurt. You can't make someone change who they are if they don't want to change.
2007-03-21 12:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already know that he's a loser then you don't go out with him.. you are setting yourself up to get hurt if you do...
2007-03-21 12:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by I Heart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your going to get hurt and used if you mess with him
2007-03-21 12:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a playa, ask him to deal you in ....tell him you want a seat at his table ....
2007-03-21 12:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋