I am dating a guy who is still somewhat involved with someone else, (they are on the outs have not been seeing each other may be breaking up) we have not been intimate at all and I am giving him time to make his decision. He says he would not even try to be with me intimately until he has made up his mind which makes me like him even more that he has some integrity and respects me enough to know I wouldnt go there. We talk almost everyday or text all of the time all day long while at work. But I still feel like this might be wrong. I enjoy spending time with him so much and miss him when we are not together. I talk to others and have dated others too trying to keep my mind off of him but bottom line is I want him all to myself dont want to "date" is this relationship wrong?
2007-03-21 05:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your relationship isn't wrong. Just keep your eyes open. If his relationship is "breaking up" with this other person and he really likes you then he should just do it and get it over with. Don't wait too long for this guy. He could be playing games with you. For your sake, i hope he's not. It sounds like you're pretty head-over-heels for this guy. Best of luck girl!
2007-03-21 05:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by sneaky squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first ask your self if you would be okay with what he is doing if you were the girl he was with.
I personally feel its wrong of HIM to be talking to you if he is still having the girl around. I don't think he will make a honest decision with you being there because believe it or not ur some of an influence specially if they are having problems.
And if he really likes you like he says he does then let him go do what he needs to do, if he is sure of you he will call you.
Wouldn't you rather know he came to you cause he wanted rather then because you made him feel better at that time.
Think about it... It seems you have the right thoughts in mind just try to put ur self in other people positions and maybe that would help you make the right choice in the end it only matters how you feel so you can't go wrong!.
2007-03-21 05:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by snap242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't personally think that it is wrong or right either. At least both of you are waiting for the right moment in hoping to be together someday because the guy's still attached. Well, I guess all you have to do is wait until your guy and his girlfriend breaks up. But in case that things get turned upside down, meaning your guy decides not to break up with his girlfriend, you should be prepared for that moment. If that happens, he isn't worth it. But you said there's a possibility of breaking up and you two seem to really love each other so, be more patient.
2007-03-21 05:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't see it as wrong at all. as long as he is showing you respect by not being intimate with you until he has made his mind up. but I'm not sure if i want you dating him, a sweet girl like you shouldn't be kept waiting and he should know that. if he doesn't then i wouldn't want you with a guy who is not smart and blind.
I'm envious of the guy, because he can have you and i can't
2007-03-22 06:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by glue stick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessarily wrong... but I do think you're setting yourself up to get hurt. If he's seeing you on the side while dating this "someone else", then be damn sure he'll see someone else on the side once he's dating you. Just keep your eyes open...
2007-03-21 05:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him if theres a chance that him and the other girl might get back together........express your feelings to him and make it a good conversation but don't get bossy with him if he says something you didn't like cause that can mess everything up....show him how much u care about him also.
2007-03-21 05:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmy Pooh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kind of. just think when he does make up his mind and it's to stay with his girlfriend. where does that leave you? move on I say, instead of being highstrung on a possibly non-existent relationship
2007-03-21 05:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong... wht have u not started intimate relation ship???
2007-03-21 05:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, hell no. your relationship is so right it makes me sad i couldn't have a girl like you.LOL, i believe i am jealous.
2007-03-21 05:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by jonathen g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.
2007-03-21 05:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋