I guess I just feel that way because very rarely is a guy interested in me. I'm 5'2", size 4, green eyes, tan, blonde hair at my shoulders and a nice dresser. I like sports and travel. I'm kind of shy until I get to know someone so maybe that is part of the problem. I don't think I have to be with someone to define who I am. It is just sometimes I wish there was someone special in my life. It just seems like no one ever notices me.
2007-03-21 04:56:47 · 30 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are fine... chill
2007-03-21 04:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by muffbro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the assumption that you are just sitting and waiting to find "Mr. Right" you need to get out there and do those things that you enjoy and take a good hard look at the people that are also doing those same things. You will have something in common immediately as well as don't be afraid to get to know the other women that are there. When they realize that you are a "great catch" they may introduce you to others that are single and emotionally available.
2007-03-21 12:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax......... guys are scared to approach a good looking chick. They fear rejection. So, it's not that they don't notice, it's that they aren't completely confident. Try this - Always tell yourself that you are beautiful, wonderful, and amazing, and then, the next time you see a good lookin guy that interests you, put on a smile and walk up to him and say hi, start some conversation. See where it goes. And don't freak if it doesn't work this time, keep it up, find what you want, you know what you're worth, and i'm betting your worth and you deserve the best. Go get it girl!! You'll be fine.
2007-03-21 12:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by krazyshadowkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your description of yourself you only described features that people can see......... your hair, clothes, height and what colour your eyes are
no disrespect intended, but maybe you should start to look at and develop other qualities that you can be proud of.
a brain, a sense of humour and a passion or an interest in something makes your green eyes and nice clothes not just more attractive but will also give you what you want..........
these qualities make you noticeable
there are lots of people out there that fit the description you provided us with......... being an interesting person gets you noticed
2007-03-21 12:04:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? you're right on both occasions,
self esteem = 0
confidence = 0
decisiveness = 0
you're an intelligent, bright, (no doubt pretty) person, wishing will not get you that someone special, you cannot mail order & buy him off the shelf, sitting at a corner lamenting that no one notices you wouldn't help much either, so, what are you going to do? it's up to you!!
2007-03-21 12:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..We are twins!!
Well from my point of view I put too much faith into fairy tale dreams. It took along time to face that there isn't a prince charming who will rid up on his horse. And that when you refocus your energy into a career or other aspects of your life...that is when somone pretty close to a prince will show his face. The hard part is trying not to dwell on it. Stay busy and keep moving and the rest will fall into place.
No wories..Your normal
2007-03-21 12:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww do you know what? That's exactly the same for me. Believe it or not, but pretty girls get a raw deal. Men are probably too shy to ask you out. Sometimes you will have to approach the guy yourself. I know, I know, it's hard. I get really shy too. But practice makes perfect.
Hey why not join my forum and talk to the girls. We'll help you out dear.
2007-03-21 12:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by MissCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. Your shyness is only a problem if you think it is. I think plenty of people notice you they just don't approach you with a bunch of tired lines etc. So you are spared a bunch of bull. When the right guy for you shows up it will be worth the wait.
2007-03-21 12:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse think that you can possibly do is look down on your self. If you believe in yourself and think i am a good peson. I am beatiful, if u don't think these thinks no one else will either. Go out get some new clothes and a new hair style and a new attitude. I promise if you believe in you everyone else will to.
2007-03-21 12:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your description, you sound perfect. I especially like the shy bit, i love a girl who is a little shy, makes the relationship between the guy and the girl that much more intimate.
2007-03-21 12:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your personality suck??? Do you have an annoying voice??? If nothing extreme is wrong with you it is probably that you just havent been hanging around the right people, do something new with new people. The one is waiting for us all somewhere, it just takes some alot longer to find them.
2007-03-21 12:01:33 · answer #11 · answered by troublz1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋