Boy's in school never aproach me i mean a lot of peple tell me that i'm not ugly that i'm really pretty and i myself think that i'm not ugly...Or is it because i hardly talk at all is that why maybe they won't approach because they think i'm a bore!
2007-03-21 04:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Mari_18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can they think you're boring if they haven't approached you?
I think that being good looking can put SOME guys off, like frighten them, but not all the guys.......are you being ignored by ALL guys or just the ones you'd like to be approached by?
I also think that while still at school age, boys aren't put off by a girls looks......they're waaaaay too confident for that.....that doesn't generally happen until they get older, apart from a few of course......
I think it's maybe due to the fact that you don't speak a lot.....you may be coming over as snooty & aloof rather than shy.....
Ugly as you call it, just as beauty.....is in the eye of the beholder, often what females consider not so hot, the guys will swarm like bees around a honey pot.....sex appeal & charissma come in many different packages, so I wouldn't be worrying on that aspect.......Try to relax & just mess around & be more at ease....you'll be amazed at how far that will go to put others at ease too..........
KB.
2007-03-21 05:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depend if your not ugly maybe your to pretty and boys are scared to aproach you because they think your out of there league. Or it could be because your shy why dont you try to aproach a boy you like.
2007-03-21 05:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Skyline 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if I saw a pic of you i'll give you an answer myself but besides the point. It is probably is because you don't talk that much. Get out more and a guy will come to you. Trust me if you want to. If you still want my opionon of you send me a pic ok. Peace. I hope you do well
2007-03-21 06:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by E-unit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was in high school guys use to tell me they wouldn't approach me b/c they thought i was mean and said i use to walk around looking like i would cuss them out if they said something to me. i thought i was friendly and smile a lot but i guess not. some even said they thought i was stuck up b/c the people i hung out with.
i don't know if you asked any of the guys at school, but you should and see what they say. it might shock you like it did me, b/c i really thought i was friendly looking.
2007-03-21 05:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I don't know you or what you look like so I can't answer your question truthfully.
However, here's a tip: Instead of trying to get people to like you, get your head out of your own @#se and start showing an interest in other people? Trust me, that really works!
2007-03-21 05:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do not care about your outer beauty but your inner beauty. If I am going to spend time with a girl, I look for her inner beauty first, give it a try.
2007-03-21 05:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try approaching them
2007-03-21 05:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta wait till your in 3rd or 4th grade ,, you have time, dont worry.
2007-03-21 05:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
got a picture ?
2007-03-21 04:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋