Does it mean I'm totally committed? I told her that
I just wanted to be buddies after I got the sex and she is angry now. She is really fine though so I would like to keep the sex. What should I do?
2007-03-21 04:37:24 · 29 answers · asked by Simon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she got mad when you told her you just wanted to be friends after you "got the sex".
Than it's best not to have sex with her. We women tend to grow feelings or more feelings after sex in involved.
You don't want her developing feeling for you, and you're using her for sex, it can be harmful to her feelings and possibly fatal to you.
Besides, no one wants to be used for sex, that has got to be a hurting feeling to find out, women are more sensitive then men, and if you care for her, don't hurt her like that.
Good Luck
~Nay~
2007-03-21 04:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably angry because telling her you just want to be buddies is something you should def. do before you have sex. If you are not interested in more though it would be worse to lead her on not really having those feelings by pretending to in order to get sex. The best way to go is just to not see her anymore, you can at least not be more skeezy to her after what you did.
2007-03-21 04:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by ○•○•Cassie•○•○ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up. You should of never said, you just want to be buddies. And besides, most guys don't call their women buddies.
You f********d yourself out of a fine women.
Well you can bet your willy, that your not going to get it from her again, thats for sure.
But remember the next time you decide, to play with someones heart. It will come back 5 times over, and you will be the one hurting.
2007-03-21 04:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately women sometimes view sex as their bounty on you. I would have worked out the details prior to intercourse. That way there is no misunderstanding or hurt feelings. It works both ways, I mean she could be using you for a greasy piece of _ss. It sounds like you are the one that just wants a warm place to deposit your DNA with no complications. A hard sell these days in any case.
2007-03-21 04:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amole Bush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it dosent mean u are commited but usually sex does bring in a more serious aspect once u get "some" from her...like all women she got attached.....just tell her right now u are not lookin for strings attached but if she is still avaible for sex without strings then u won man other than that ya a s s is out the door....
2007-03-21 04:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you have sex with someone does not mean you are in a relationship. If you told her from the start that you only wanted sex and she took it somewhere else.
DROP HER LIKE A BAD HABIT !!!!!
You don't want someone that does not play by the rules.
2007-03-21 04:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Raya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. I wouldn't be surprised that she got angry because she probably wanted a relationship with you (unless she's a slut lol).
You'll probably lose the sex unless you have a relationship with her. BUT DON'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP JUST FOR SEX! You'll just wind up hurting her feelings even more.
I'd just drop it and find someone else unless she wants to continue. Just talk to her.
2007-03-21 04:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is wrong with you? Did you remember that you slept with a girl and not a guy. A lot of emotions goes through a woman when sex is involved. You are so inconsiderate, she should have blew you off at first.
2007-03-21 04:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you just keep her around for the "sex" you are really going to hurt this poor woman. Don't be a jerk. If you actually like her( not just physical appearance) then be with her she obviously likes you, don't play with her mind i know woman like to play with guys heads but thats them, guys don't do that. Be respectable
2007-03-21 04:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that dosnt mean u are totally committed, but after u have sex then break up w/ a girl, she probly will get mad thinking u just used her for sex
2007-03-21 04:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋