We've know each other for a while and we went on one date,but shes not really over her last boyfrind who moved out of state.they still talk on the phone...i jus text her cus im not really good at tlkin on the phone(if you have anything that can help me get better at that feel free 2 share it with me)it seems like she shows no intrest cus im not tring hard enough I dnt c her at school and the few times i do neither one of us speak...I need help yall got somethin for me?
2007-03-21 04:33:23 · 3 answers · asked by Kuro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you interested in a real relationship with her? If so, I think this is not the best time. She is still on the rebound from a past relationship. That the still talks on the phone with this ex is a sign that she may not be over him yet.
My advice: Just be there for her and wait for the right time to tell her how you feel. Don't push or take advantage of her current emotional state (if you are interested in a real relationship).
And don't make the mistake of assuming she is not reacting because you are not trying hard enough. That is such a "guy" mistake.
2007-03-21 04:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, START CALLING HER. If she's a phone-person...then she obviously likes talking on the phone. So think of some things to say to her before you call her and when the conversation goes dead, bring them up. If he is out of state, then that makes it harder for them to date again and easier for you to move in on her =] good luck!!!
2007-03-21 04:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time,ask her out for coffee, do not text her ask her over the phone.---good luck sunshine you will need it, do not be pushie.
2007-03-21 04:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋