there's this guy i like that comes to my skool and i really like him.. we flirt with each other a lot but i asked him out like awhile ago.. but he said no. and now it seems like he likes me and i just can't get him off my mind.. like awhile ago i went to a dance and he was there but for something else and i a couldn't have fun.. all i can think about is him!! i need help!! what should i do?????
2007-03-21 04:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Miss THANG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very young and inexperienced.
Leave him alone. If he likes you, he'll ask. Otherwise, you could be a real pest.
You can think about something else, by DOING IT! Every time you catch yourself thinking about him, start singing your favorite song or doing fractions in your head. You can't think of 2 things at once. Study in school-what a concept.
It is a form of addictive behavior to get stuck on something and it nags at you to death. You can nip it in the bud if you want to.
Why couldn't you have fun? You are letting him run your life-and he isn't even doing anything. You need to get busy with a hobby or talking to someone who WANTS to talk to you. You deserve that.
You might talk to a counsellor at school or a favorite adult about your self-esteem issues. You surely are worthy of having people in your life to help you and love you. We all are.
Good l;uck.
2007-03-21 04:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this, but it could all be a joke for him, fun and games.
He knows you like him so he could just be exploiting that which is wrong for anything to do.
Find you a guy that's not going to play mind games.
Good Luck
~Nay~
2007-03-21 11:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph common sense should tell you to never give up regardless of the situation
2007-03-21 11:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it sounds hard, but i would just leave it alone, and move on to liking someone else.. if he liked you back, i'm sure he wouldv'e tried to talk to you at the dance, or just anytime at school
sorry, but good luck
2007-03-21 11:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it and if its too difficult for you to say anything to him just print this out and show it to him.
2007-03-21 11:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask again
2007-03-21 11:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you he will ask dont push it
2007-03-21 11:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i can't help u. takes time to forget someone i guess. all the best babe!
2007-03-21 11:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋