i really want to do it with my bf but im afraid cause people tell me im skinny and stuff but wouldnt it be ebaressing to pot the cherry or what ever Help i want to so should i or no?
2007-03-21 04:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NNOOOOO!!!!!!!! come on, wait !!!!!
2007-03-21 04:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about what you are going to look like you're not emotionally prepared for the realities of a physical relationship. Wanting it is healthy delayed gratification is far better. Wait until you find someone that puts all of these things into proper perspective for you. You do not have to have relations just cause everyone else is. You will have and give far more pleasure if you just wait for the right time and place. Good luck this is a tough choice and many will tell you just do it and get it over with. However, I hope you will wait and show some self esteem and dignity. The first time is one that you will remember for the rest of your life let all the circumstances be correct.
2007-03-21 11:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to and are ready well go for it. I mean the first time for a girl does hurt and yes can be embarrasing. Make sure though that you are ready and that your boyfriend is gentle and that you can talk to him. By talking to him about how you feel will make it alot easier.
2007-03-21 11:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has an obsession over their body image when it comes to that though. as far as him taking your innocence if you don't feel that he is the one don't give into the pressure. it sounds like this is something that he wants to do more than you. so no, you shouldn't, at least until you get over those two issues; then perhaps you two should talk about it some more ...
2007-03-21 11:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say one thing--PREGNANT! If you have to ask whether or not you should have sex, you shouldn't. Remember that there is no condom or birth control that is completely foolproof. 8 minutes of pleasure=18 years of childraising. Are you ready for that? If you're not ready to be a parent, don't you dare have sex.
2007-03-21 11:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Elise F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're ready not what other people think. If your boyfriend doesn't want to wait until you are ready then he's not worth it either. Remember, the top doesn't go back on once it's popped!!!
2007-03-21 11:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big rush to do "it". You sound young and sweet. Stay that way. You'll know when the time is right for YOU.
2007-03-21 11:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by riverrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin for now. Best to wait. The boy that is willing to wait with you and for you will be the one for you.
2007-03-21 11:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you don't want to then don't....But YOU do so do it but i can tell you this after you have sex your not able to get that back so i would wait till you get married...
2007-03-21 11:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit young to do it yet...
I'm sure you are not too skinny...
Give it a year or two more...
2007-03-21 11:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever, but consider this: you only get to give your virginity to one person ever. Is this REALLY the person you want to give it to?
2007-03-21 11:42:16 · answer #11 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋