I used to be too nice. When people started walking all over me, I stopped being nice. A lot of the things I found amusing before are not as amusing now. I find it hard to smile or laugh when someone makes a joke or just talks to me because I just don't find it very interesting. I tried laughing along today, but I just felt so fake and there's no doubt the other person noticed it too. What is wrong with me??
2007-03-21 04:28:06 · 27 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing
2007-03-21 04:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, nothing's wrong with you. It's probably just the natural process of maturing. As you gain more experience in life and grow, you'll realize certain things don't seem as funny. You've probably heard enough bad jokes and stories that it takes a real witty joke or an new kind of story to interest you. Everybody notices the big changes we make in life; looking back, you'll probably remember all the silly things that were funny in elementary school, things that probably won't be as funny if they were re-inacted at this point of life. People often forget that we continue to grow and change physically and mentally.
I don't think you should fake it just to fit in. Sure, you have to do it sometimes, but that's no way to live life. You probably need to do a little introspection here. Figure out the things that makes you smile recently, or gave you a warm fuzzy feeling. Maybe it wouldn't hurt to go out and try new things, watch new TV shows or find some new company.
I don't think any of this is directly related to your attempts to 'stop being nice'. Afterall, if you successfully gave off the imagine that you were 'not nice', people wouldn't joke or talk with you.
2007-03-21 11:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by Shades of Green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life
2007-03-21 11:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Souds like you are just growing up and realizing who is and isn't important to you. You will develop a feel for the type of people you really want to have around you.
It is still nice to be "friendly" to others though, and if a little fake laughter is necessary- what can it hurt???
2007-03-21 12:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by juicy13500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with you, you're being yourself, you just can't let people walk all over you.
I'm a nice person too, but I put my foot down when I see someone is trying to take advantage of me.
Most people will try to take your kindness for you weakness, you can't let that happen.
Good Luck
~Nay~
2007-03-21 11:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. Just make sure you don't turn the exact opposite and become cold. Still be sweet, but only when you feel like it's deserved.
Be yourself. If a joke isn't funny, don't laugh.
2007-03-21 11:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey.. why did u change? you should know not to let anyone change you... if u were happy with whom u are .. then instead of letting people walk over you..then stand up to them but that should not make u change into something you are not.. clear your mind.. and think what makes you happy... hopefully you can go back to being hte way you are.. find the reason to smile again.. . =)
2007-03-21 11:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey
J-j-j-jaded
Youve got your mamas style but youre yesterdays child to me
So jaded
You think thats where its at but is that where its supposed to be?
Youre gettin it all over me
And serrated ? ? ?
Chorus
My, my, baby blue
(yeah Im thinkin bout you)
My, my, baby blue
Yeah, youre so jaded
And Im the one that jaded you
Hey
J-j-j-jaded
In all its misery it will always be what I love and hated
And maybe take a ride to the other side were thinkin of
Well slip into the velvet glove
And be jaded
Chorus
(w/) yeah, Im so jaded
And baby Im afraid of you
Bridge
Youre thinkin so complicated
Ive had it all up to here
But its so overrated
Love and hate it
Wouldnt trade it
Love me jaded
Guitar solo
Hey
J-j-j-jaded
There aint no baby please when Im shootin the breeze with her
When everything you see is a blur
And ecstasys what you prefer
Chorus
(w/) (blue, blue, blue, yeah)
(Im talkin bout you)
(blue, blue, blue, blue yeah)
(yeah, been thinkin bout you)
My, my, baby blue
Yeah, youre so jaded (baby)
Jaded (baby)
Youre so jaded
cause Im the one that jaded you
2007-03-21 11:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your letting life turn you bitter that's whats wrong with you. This life is full of people that suck, but you don't have to be like them. Go out and enjoy life, find crazy people like me and just laugh.
2007-03-21 11:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that the question we're suppose to be asking you?
Did someone hurt you?
Are you sick?
Did you just suddenly wake up with an epiphany?
But if you're asking me whats wrong with you? My answer is, I don't know!
2007-03-21 11:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what happened to that nice girl.
Life is your own. Live it.
Do what you like. And be yourself.
Is best to make yourself happy rather than try make others happy.
All the best. Is good you realize you are not you.
Look within and try love yourself.
2007-03-21 12:53:59 · answer #11 · answered by Mmmmm 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋