Im starting to think he doesnt like my boyfriend that much (he is a friend but not "a good friend") and he sends me e-mails sometimes to tell me about his life and stuff (nothing romantic) and he asks me to keep this from my bf.
Not only that but this guy gets along with a guy that hates my boyfriend...
He is a nice person and I dont understand whats the big deal, I guess he just needs someone to talk to. o_O should I tell my boyfriend?
2007-03-21 04:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea ive been in a situation like this, only i was sending the freidly email, u have to stop it and tell ur bf, trust me, as fast as u can u have to stop it, u dont want anybody to lose neone, just trust me, this caused me some serious stuff but it went on for a while, u have to stop it!
2007-03-21 04:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your boyfriend, 100%. This could be a test they've set up for you, or this guy could be trying to break the two of you up. Think about it this way: What if you DON'T tell your man about the emails, and then this "friend" tells him he's been emailing you on his own? There's nothing you could say to prove to your man that the emails were nothing, since you kept them from him. So just tell him, show him or do something to let him know before the situation blows up.
2007-03-21 04:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Switch the roles. How would you feel if a girl you new was friends with someone who hated you and this chick started sending your boyfriend emails and asking him not to tell you? What would you expect out of him? I think you should stop replying to the guys emails. He'll get the hint.
2007-03-21 04:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by teacher101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should ask the friend why he wants to keep it from ur BF
and if he doesnt answer or comes up with something stupid
then u tell ur BF right away cuz the friend might be wanting u and is trying to steal u from ur BF and THATS BAD
2007-03-21 04:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by Death Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has a thing for you, so he plays both sides against the middle to get what he wants...you. He whispers thing to you and says don't tell, but I'll bet he doing the same thing to the guy that hates your boyfriend. If you are not interested in this -so-called friend, don't socialize with him and TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND!!! If you don't tell him then he will think betrayal.
2007-03-21 04:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by levell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt tell him, but I wouldnt not tell him.
If you want the guy to leave you alone then I would email him and ask him to do so, and if he doesnt stop then I would tell your boyfriend.
If it doesnt bother you then your boyfriend doesnt NEED to know, and if he founds out he shouldnt get angry about it, email is just email its not like your meeting with him behind your bf's back and sleeping with him....
2007-03-21 04:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out. This could be a team effort. A test. Ask the friend politely to stop communicating with you.
2007-03-21 04:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to end all contact with this guy, ur going behind ur bf's back, hiding messages, u 2 have "ur own lil secret" weather it be sexual or not. what kind of gf is that. u dont owe this guy anything but u do to ur bf, end it now. no one makes u hit that lil reply button, so why do u?
2007-03-21 04:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to get you to feeling sorry for him so he can make a move on you. Otherwise, why would he want to hide it? Too strange.....I would tell your boyfriend.
2007-03-21 04:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y r u thinking abt it? i hope u know how ur bf wud feel if he comes to know that u r in such emotional intimacy with a "not a good friend" of his so before its too late just mae him aware abt this....
2007-03-21 04:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by anjali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋