Ok I am in grade 11, the girl I love is in the same grade. I have had the same feelings for her since grade 9, but I can't seem to move on. I live in a smalltown and I live like 5 minutes away from her, but I am moving at the end of grade 11 to go to a different home and school. But I don't know if I can move on, she has had at least 4 b/f since I have liked her, I have had one g/f but it didn't last, I have had plenty of chance to hook up with different girls but I don't want to be with any one else but her. But Right now she still has a b/f but their relationship is on the rocks. At the beginning of grade 9 we both loved eachother, then I stopped talking to her completely till a month ago. Right now she looks at me alot and I do as well, she asked me to sit next to her in all of our classes and she talks to me alot on msn. , but I know that in the end I probly won't be with her. So should I just move without telling her how I feel, or tell her how I feel. please help.
2007-03-21 03:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by Trey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust ur gut instinct read ur question QUOTE I KNOW THAT IN THE END I PROBLY WON'T BE WITH HER. END QUOTE so why waste ur time and hers move on u will b facing new challenges meeting new folks
2007-03-21 04:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience is, if you don't say anything, you will regret it for a long, long, time. If she's asking you to sit next to her, it's a very clear sign that she likes you. So talk to her, and tell her how you feel. I know, it's very difficult, but it's well worth it. No bad can come of it, but you could end up with a new gf. That's how it started with me and the person who is now my wife: I gathered my courage and told her that I loved her, and it turned out that she had been wanting me for months. And in any case, you will be able to stop worrying about it.
2007-03-21 11:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Yes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on how far away you are moving and whether or not you are willing to have a long distance relationship. I would tell her, but don't expect it to be easy, she might not want a long distance b/f
2007-03-21 11:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just be honest with her abour ur feelings towards her. after all it's been 2 yrs, how long more are u going to wait? and if nobody makes the forst move, then u'll be guessing if she likes u or not forever and get vexed over it. so i say go and tell her ur feelings man!
2007-03-21 11:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel so you can see if she feels the same way. If she doesn't, then you can move on.
2007-03-21 11:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her...if you dont you may regret it forever...the worst thing that is gonna happen is shell say she dosent feel the same...but then you move and wont see her again..GO FOR IT!!!!
2007-03-21 11:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.
well, i would say if shes still in a relationship, leave it alone.
but most definelty, before you move, tell her how you feel becuase if you dont, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-03-21 11:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by jessica_stay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel but ITS NOT LOVE u will feel dis way a hundred more times. i never believed people either when d said it to me i thought i met my future husband in school...NOPE!!!! jus a crush it happens!!
2007-03-21 11:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Irishlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say your ages so I cannot really know what to tell you
2007-03-21 11:09:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋