Question to white women: are you sick of white men?

Question

They're not romantic, they don't know how to court a woman, they're dull, they never flirt, they don't know how to treat a woman right, they treat women like men.

Doug K, your remark is typical for a white male. That's exatly what i hate about white males.

Nightmare gorilla, your babbling about equality and your whining about how women don't wanna take male roles is so typical for a white male.

I'm not overweight. I can't see what that has to do with my question.

Answer 1

That is not fair.

Answer 2

I have dated white, asian, hindu, hispanic and native American Women. I have not had sexual relationships with each, but dated. I found some to be shallow, some entertaining and others to be fun and interesting. I respected their cultures and found that it is the individual and not the race that makes up the diff. If you are interested in the other side, date them. Don't over generalize cuz you only get picked up at bars late at night either. Meet people at social events, become friends first. Usually, you end up with people similar to you. You attract certain types by the way you dress, places you hang out at and by the way you carry yourself. Perhaps, you should find ways of giving yourself more self worth and therefore attracting men that will value you more. Good luck.

Answer 3

Great topic. Where to begin? Oh yes, it's not about whether the man is white, black, yellow, brown, indigo or magenta. It's all a personality/stereotype/guy thing. Granted, I've seen SOME white boys who are apathetic, but it doesn't mean they don't try to make an impression--they're just intimidated. Guys were never born to be in tune with feelings, its something they develop, and when they've spent most of their childhood avoiding girls because of "cooties" they grow up with the mindset that girls are the dark side. This causes insecurities in the male and tension on both sexes. So it's not a color thing, it's a guy thing.

Answer 4

Boy you sound pissed....someone must have really made you mad.....

Don't you hate it when men categorize all women as b*tches? Grouping us all together when we're not all b*tches. Or complain that all women hate to have sex, or we're all naggers, etc.

Well, that's what you just did with "white men" or just men in general. You've run into some poor specimens of the male gender. They're not all the same. Keep your eyes open and you'll find a guy (regardless of color) that will treat you right.

Answer 5

Every saturday morning I make my fiance breakfast in bed, I routinely put her on my massage table and give her a full body massage and pedicures ( the best that I can) I am a great cook and make dinner every night while she takes care of our 4 month old daughter, this weekend I am taking her to San Diego, there is a resturaunt by the water that she loves.
( shhhhhhh, it's a surprise) In turn she does EVERYTHING I could ever want a woman to do. OhYA im WHITE.

Answer 6

Nope my Bf is the most romantic guy on the planet. Tell you hat if you go out wiht a guy make sure he is at least 2 yrs older then you then they will have the same brain span.

Answer 7

Sorry you have experienced such bad times with your white men? Next time try not to be so stuck up and high on yourself. If you can not accept the way they treat women (you) then maybe you should try your racism on a man of different color. If that doesn't please your unrealistic standards then maybe you need to be trying to hook up with someone of your own kind-- you probably have some lesbian tendencies. So enjoy your self, your hummer and enjoy some women.

Answer 8

not at all, if they're not romantic, they don't know how to court a woman, they're dull, they never flirt, they don't know how to treat a woman in a right way, he is not then a suitable guy 4 me.
hence i'll say sorry.

Answer 9

the exact reason why people capitalize on racism is because of stereotyping as you just did.

do you have blonde hair?...must be dumb
do have you big boobs?....must be fake
do wear your jeans below your azz?....must be a thug
do you wear nice clothes?....must be high maintenance
do you kiss on the first date?....must be easy
do you have short hair?....must be a lesbian
do you live in the country?....must be an inbreeder

sounds to me like you have NO idea what you are talking about and you are basing this question on ONE experience....get out from underneath your rock and drop the immaturity.

Answer 10

although im black... i have dated some real black dogs and some really good men who just happen to be black. i think that u are jut not having luck with the men that u are choosing. not all white men are bad. try steppin out of ur box

Answer 11

sounds like your the kinda girl that enjoys getting trapped in shitty relationships. I know the type. always got one foot out the door, looking for the bad and ignoring the good, probably tarnished at childhood or in a past relationship, its okay you cant help it, your destined to be miserable. i personally think your question is rediculous. are you over weight or enjoy being abused? cause if you do i would understand why you 'd be attracted to black men. not racist, just making an observation. 95% of my black friends treat their girls like ****, cheat, abusive, especially if their w/ a white woman. over weight women tend to have issues w/ self esteem so they find it necssary to perform falatio more often to seek acceptence. black guys love wyt girls cause they tend to be easier to keep hush-hushed, cause obviously if your dating any kind of abusive bastard, im sure you had a negative father figure in your life and you wnat to be told what to do. but they'll never respect you cause you're not mama, go tanning gain 100lbs and tell him that he's stupid and that he'll be anything w/ out you, then he'll truely love you. just keep looking, make better judgment calls when you first meet a guy. and maybe try to help the situation by trying to make it work.